A Beginners Guide to Anal Beads

We all love a good massage, but you know what’s even better than the classic kneading? An anal massage! No, I am not joking, this can be done with a bit of help from the anal beads, and it is more than relaxing! However, before sticking some balls inside your anus in order to get the perfect massage, you should know more about them!

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Also known as “Thai beads” these sex balls come attached to a string or a solid piece of soft rubber. They are available in different sizes and they are designed for anal penetration.

You can massage your anus using various speeds, depending on the effect you are looking for, but most people do it to enhance their orgasm and guess what? It absolutely works! And this is coming from somebody who ran away from anal sex for many years!

Nothing Says ORGASM Like Anal Beads – The Why

Some people are happy with doing the same things every time, not only when it comes to sex. However, others really like adventures, new ways to stimulate their brains and bodies. I am one of them and my latest new thing was sex related, and it involved me becoming very good friends with some pink anal beads.

Yes, pink! My partner keeps buying me pink sex toys though almost all my clothes are black or white. He knows me so well. Anyway, he nailed it with these sex balls! They are a tremendous addition to our bedroom play, adding extra stimulation to my anus and to be honest though his anus is out of the play, these sex toys bring interactivity to both of us.

I am very happy with them though I believe I should have gotten them earlier as they are a good introduction to anal sex for beginners. So, not only do I recommend them for the explosive orgasm the slow pulling of the beads can give, but also for getting people into anal sex mood!

Now, let me give you a couple of tips about how to have a brilliant experience with your anal beads, even if it’s your first one!

Relaxation, Lubrication, Communication – The How

I got my anal beads as a present, but the whole idea was to use them together and spice up our sex life. However, I tried them BY MYSELF before involving my partner and I advise everybody to do the same thing! It’s your choice, but exploring my own body first was always very helpful for our sexy plays!

Another advice I have is to BE RELAXED AND TURNED ON when you start playing with these sex toys. It helps a lot. So, if you are by yourself, play with your body and masturbate for a while before beginning to put the balls into your anus!

Since you are a beginner, you should start your adventure with some really FLEXIBLE ANAL BEADS. Yes, silicon is the best choice you can make since they are extra flexible, giving you the chance to explore and stimulate a variety of areas inside. Well, how else would you know where are your hot spots?

The first thing you want to know is that you cannot play without LUBE, BABY! Don’t even think about trying! Even the thought hurts! What kind of lube? Well, I use water-based lubricants and as far as I know they are good for almost everyone.

Don’t save the lube, please! Use a generous amount and, just to make sure you will enjoy the play, put lubricant all over the beads and also on the outside and inside of your anus! Believe me, you need it!

Once you are extra lubricated, you can start your anal adventure. Just START SLOW! Push the first one and get used to the feeling of penetration they give you. Use your both hands, one for spreading your anus and the other to push the beads, easily, one by one.

Keep in mind that when you are inserting the beads, you might not feel any intense pleasure. At least I didn’t, though I heard people saying they really enjoyed it. Anyway, things are very different when you pull them out since that is the moment when they get the chance to massage the sphincter muscles, offering some really amazing sensations!

Getting an anus massage is really great but the best moment to pull them out is at the point of orgasm! This way your orgasm is so intense that you will “feel fireworks”. I did!

After you explored your anus with the beads, it’s time for your partner to join the party! It can be an amazing experience, making your sex life even better than it was. However, don’t just jump into bed and put the balls inside yourselves. Talk about it before, say out loud what you want to do with the sex toys and discuss your boundaries.

And if you are planning to use the anal beads with an escort, make sure she is into this kind of play. Though for many people they appear interesting and exciting, there are people who would never try them. So, when you search for an escort, don’t miss checking out her favourite sexual activities. Also, just to be sure, ask her if she is willing to use the anal beads, when you call to set up the sexy encounter!

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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