There are times when you have decided that you want nothing more than a slow and sensual massage to turn you on and help you relax. There are also times when you want to be the masseuse. You want to show your partner that you have the ultimate erotic massage skills to make them dripping wet for you.
The problem is knowing where to start. You might know how amazing it feels to enjoy an erotic massage, but giving one is an entirely different matter. So what do you do?
Thankfully we have our ultimate erotic massage guide below to help you. We’ll talk you through the best lotions and oils to use, how to set the erotic environment, and the different techniques you can use to really get them turned on and begging for you to fuck them.
Preparing for the massage
First things first, you want to make sure you have the setting perfect for your massage. You don’t want to just have them walk into a bright room and lie on the bed. This doesn’t give you the romantic setting you need to really get them turned on.
Instead you have to create the mood. You can do this by lighting some romantic candles around the room. It is even better if they have a very subtle scent, as this can really help to relax them and put them at ease. It also helps to have some fresh towels on standby to catch excess oil and dry them afterwards.
Oil is also an essential for massage. It helps your hands glide effortlessly over their skin, making it easier for you to massage and rub at their body. If you can’t use oils, lotions will work too. Just be aware that they dry out quicker and can cause friction when you rub, which is uncomfortable after a while.
Music is also important. There are plenty of playlists you can find online on music sharing sites that will help you. Simply search for relaxing music and you’ll find something suitable.
Developing your technique
The best tip you will find for an erotic massage is to start off slowly. The slower it is the more erotic it will be. Your hands will be on their body for longer, teasing them and turning them on.
It works especially well if you start on the outside of their body and work your way in. This means starting with their hands and slowly working your way up the arms. Massage their back slowly, working your way to their ass, but stop before you get there. Get her to flip over and start on the other side.
You want to leave her pussy for last, if you are going to touch her there at all. The anticipation and build up will be the biggest turn on, especially if you keep stopping and moving away. By the time you are finished she will be begging for you to fuck her.
Circular motions are excellent if you aren’t sure what to do with your hands, but you should try the kneading technique. Experiment with the pressure and ask your partner what feels good. If you go too hard they will tell you so that you can ease off a little.
Ending the ultimate erotic massage
How you end the ultimate erotic massage is up to you. You might decide to simply give in to their demands and fuck them hard… or you might instead want to tease them for a little longer.
One of the best things that you can do to end your ultimate erotic massage is to give them a happy ending. You could try simply teasing their clit and seeing if you can get them off with just your hand. However, you might prefer to go down on them.
If you do, make sure you take your time. Don’t suddenly thrust your tongue at their clit like you have been starved of pussy for weeks. We get it. You want to do it and are desperate for a taste. But the slower you go the more erotic it will be. It will also lead to one hell of an orgasm for her!
Is it better to give or receive?
Enjoying the ultimate erotic massage is one thing, but giving it is a bit of a challenge. This is why it is an excellent idea to try it out a few times. You want to make sure you have the technique down, so why not offer to your partner? We are sure they will not mind being a test subject for a massage.
But is it better to give or to receive? We’re in two minds on this one. Personally, while I love giving massages, it is so much more exciting for me to be a little bit selfish and receive.
What about you? We want to hear from you, so let us know what you think by leaving a comment in the box below. You can even share your favourite tips and vote in the poll to tell us whether it is better to give or receive.
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In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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