With all the different styles of shagging, there’s a sexual position that’s your favorite. You dig that position because it not only provides you with physical gratification, it also serves you on a subconscious level. Your go-to move says a lot about your personality and its primal wants, needs and interests in between those sheets when it comes to getting down and dirty.
Some dudes rock missionary, while others insist the view from doggy style is superior. Some homies appreciate their misses on top rocking the casbah, while vanilla sex enthusiasts stick with spooning. Even though you may have the tendency to switch it up, that winning position you revert to plays on a fundamental need to achieve a psychological climax as well as that Mount St. Helen orgasm.
There are some who color inside the lines, and there are others who color outside the lines. The choice to play it safe in between the sheets or go buck wild reveals a lot about your sexy colors. Herein we assess eight common shag-a-delic sex positions discussing the personality traits that rock along with them, because whatever position floats your kinky boat, says a lot about your true colors.
1. Missionary
This position is a classic, and it’s the most popular position in rom-coms, TV shows and long-term relationships. It’s the most versatile of all the sexy positions because there’s room to raise one leg, or two legs, and switch it up. It’s great because it not only does the kinky trick, but there’s also face to face time, emotional intimacy and a sensual bond. Yet let’s be real, it’s basic.
For Him: If missionary sex is a dude’s favorite position, it may mean he’s a bit insecure or shy when it comes to other sexual positions in his kinky arsenal, or he may just need reassurance from seeing his lover be responsive. “He also may be keen on having control during sex, as missionary gives him all the driving power,” says Sex Therapist Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of Neurolovology.
For Her: The woman who like this position prefers to keep that shag simple. “She’s not all that into experimentation and is typically not wild and crazy in the bedroom,” notes Stacy Rybchin of My Secret Luxury. “She desires eye contact and wants to feels a connection to her partner. This is also the preferred position for busy, on-the-go women who are tired.” she points out.
2. Doggie Style
All dudes love a doggy style romp because it lets him tap into his territorial animalistic instinct. In this position, he’s king of the hill as he pounds that pootang’s jungle from behind.
For Him: If Doggy Style is dude’s favorite position, it could imply that, “he has fears of intimacy and is generally unromantic.” says Cadell. It’s a position that invokes domination and power and he knows it. He didn’t opt for rear entry because he wants to whisper sweet nothings into her ear! This dude is all about bringing it deep, dictating that tempo, and taking the express train to pound town.
For Her: “Whether you’re pushing into him, or he’s grabbing you, and pulling you back, this is the position for someone who likes to get wild. You’re a bit of a naughty girl, and you enjoy being submissive, and having your lover ravage you with passion,” reveals Certified Master Sex Expert Nikki Random-Alfred.
3. Woman-On-Top
The beauty of this kink-a-liscious position is that there’s a million ways to ride the flagpole, and it’s all up to her to raise its sexy sail. Girl on top allows her to decide the pace and the depth of penetration making sure that that joystick hits the spot, which helps her reach that blissful orgasm.
For Him: Dudes who dig the Woman-On-Top sexual position are concerned with pleasing their partners. In this position, she can get herself off, and dudes who love this position believe in helping his partner get off. “He’s confident in being submissive, but he can also be dominant when he enables her to reach her orgasm with deeper penetration,” says Cadell.
For Her: If she gets off in Girl-on-Top, it’s because she’s a woman who likes to have control over the action. She knows what she wants and she’s extremely confident and comfortable with her body.
4. Spooning
It’s most associated with cuddling and sleep, but this super intimate position is a fantastic way to enjoy the horizontal bop because it’s relaxing, easy and convenient for falling asleep afterwards. It’s an easy going, slow, sensual position that lets those lovers keep shagging for a long, long, long time.
For Him: Men who get off from spooning sex have a real big soft spot. “He’s passionate and eager to please his lover,” Cadell says.
For Her: This is the flavored position of the romantic. When a woman favors this position it means that she has complete trust in her lover and she’s willing to surrender to him.
5. Reverse Cowgirl
This sexy position has that dame facing dude’s feet and riding into the sunset. Like Girl on Top, it lets her to control the speed and intensity of penetration allowing him to sit back and enjoy the ride.
For Him: When it comes to tits or ass, this dude yells back, ass! Whether he enjoys being a boy toy, or just letting that sexy vixen do however she sees fit, this dude likes watching her take the reigns.
For Her: You’re wild, sexually open and not afraid to take charge in the bedroom. You don’t mind being responsible for your own fucking orgasm, while giving your man pleasure at the same time.
6. Legs Behind Your Head
If she can get into this position, she’s super flexible. With those legs behind her head, this position and the angle of dude’s wang plows that sexy field allowing him control of speed and depth.
For Him: This dude has an appetite for the strange and the bizarre. He enjoys her in this position because it gives him a conductor’s podium ,from which he can passionately orchestrate the music.
For Her: If she gets off in this position, it’s because it’s deeply psychological. She’s not only flexible, but she’s a giver, and there’s something about being vulnerable that really lets her, let go.
7. Standing Up
In this sexy position, dude has her pressed against the door, the wall, hoisted onto the kitchen counter, or in the shower. Essentially our bodies are designed in a way where we can shag while we stand, granting us access to the joy of sex without the need of furniture or getting on all fours.
For Him: If dude enjoys this position most, he’s adventurous, and he’s also turned on by being naughty. “He’s a mischievous lover who gets a thrill out of getting caught, and he wants to have as much fun as possible with little regard of the consequences,’ says Cadell.
For Her: The woman who gets off on standing up sex doesn’t like to take it lying down. She’s a free spirit which enjoys the thrill of shagging in unusual places. If given the opportunity, she would most likely peek into Pandora’s Box.
8. Looking in The Mirror
Seeing your reflection in the middle of a shag is like realizing, that moment is a porn! It allows you two the opportunity to connect the sensation of feeling to seeing. Shagging in front of the mirror allows one to see the masterpiece of their kink and it lets those kinksters ham it up.
For Him: This dude believes that success is sweeter when he can see the fruits of his labor. He likes to watch, and porn may have been his first love because it fostered the tendency to do so.
For Her: She gets off because she believes that seeing is believing. Most likely, this sexy vixen has already starred in some sort of home-made porn. If not, she could easily be coaxed into making one!
From the contents of your pocket to your favorite sleeping position to whether you seek a dominant or a submissive sexual position; there are tell tale signs that reveal your character composite. Rock out the position that hits your sweet spot knowing, now that it’s gratifying for more than one reason. Curious to know what your sleeping position says about you? Then watch this video and find out!
Do you agree or disagree? Got something you want to get off your chest? Then keep calm, stay kinky and sound off in the comments below!
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