A Guide to Whipping

Some people like doing it a little bit, whereas others like doing it a lot. Some people used to have it done when they were at school, whereas others continue to do it in their bedrooms. Some people do it for pleasure, whereas others do it for a living.

Man between ywo women about to get a whipping
Two girls mistress dominate man. They tied him up and beat whip as punishment.

What am I talking about? Well, I’m talking about an act that can only be performed when you have a leathery material in the bedroom…Are you still not getting the drift? I’m talking about whipping; who wouldn’t understand the connection between leather and whipping?!

I have always wondered to myself that if some people like getting spanked, would they also like getting whipped? Personally, I’d prefer to get spanked than whipped because I love the feeling of another person’s skin slapping against my ass cheeks. Depending on what kind of material would be used for whipping, it can be too intense for me to handle. Nevertheless, there are many people who adore getting spanked with a cane, a flogger or even a belt.

Why aren’t we talking more about whipping?

Despite what you may think about whipping; the fetish is not exclusive to one sex. Any man or woman, whether they’re in their 20’s or 70’s, can get sexually aroused by whipping or getting whipped. If you think that you’re the only one who likes this kink, well, you don’t have to worry about that. If you search for the keyword ‘whipping’ on the internet, you’d see so many people talking about their whipping stories on a ‘Yahoo! Answers’ page.

As some of you would already know, whipping is a sub-genre of BDSM since a dom and a sub would be involved in the fetish. Even though the fetish is well-known amongst many people who are interested or intrigued with BDSM, it’s not commonly talked about amongst communities; whether it is face to face or online. However, the explanation or my theory is more complicated than it seems.

Nowadays, we live in a generation where we, as a society, have become more liberal in sex culture. Whether we’re into leather, handcuffs or feet; it’s ok to express our love for all of the little kinks that we’d like to perform in the bedroom.

Nevertheless, there are some people who feel as if they can’t say that they like whipping without receiving any social backlash. I believe that there is still a power struggle going on in our society, especially when it comes to gender roles. Guys and girls, you have to understand the different between sex and gender. I know many friends who are into bondage and getting whipped; many of my friends are men.

However, they tell me that they could only talk to me about their fetishes because I am very open and that I’m the only one who wouldn’t judge. I’ve heard many people use the term ‘Man Box’ as to which it depicts all of the activities and behaviours that a man ‘should’ have when interacting with himself and other people; being strong is one of those characteristics.

Therefore, if a man would say to another person that he likes to give up control in the bedroom, that person would start to think that he’s a pussy and not a ‘real man’. C’mon guys, we are all becoming equal with each other and you’re point the finger at others who don’t conform to your social criteria? Nonetheless, I guess you can say that ‘old habits die hard’.

I know I’ve digressed a little bit, but it does make you understand why some people are not as open about whipping as they’d want to be. However, you’re reading an article about whipping on the most sexually liberated site that you could be on, that was also written by the most sexually liberated woman that you could think of!

Let your imagination run wild with thoughts about leather

I’ve had a couple of experiences with BDSM myself, but I can’t say that I’ve had any involvement with whipping before. The only time I’ve whipped someone was when a friend was dressed up as Catwoman for a Halloween party and he was drunk enough to let me use his whip on him.

As I’ve said before, I don’t like getting whipped, but I would like to know what it feels like to be a dominant girl and whip another guy into shape. I remember watching a scene from the movie ‘Mr. and Mrs. Smith’, where Angelina Jolie was trying to complete one of her missions and she started slapping a man on the back with a horsewhip in her sexy, black corset. Hearing the sound of a man moaning in ecstasy when he feels a piece of hard leather hitting against his skin would make my pants wet!

When it comes to whipping, you have to enjoy pain in order to enjoy a whipping experience; having an interest in being a submissive is not enough. I say this because there are plenty of things that you can do in the bedroom where the pain is absent; such as having your wrists bound to the bed posts or getting tied up with a rope. Furthermore, some people have a fear of their skin breaking when it comes to whipping; this is one of the reasons why you need to have a safe word in the BDSM world.

Any kind of impact of the skin would carry the risk of leaving a bruise or a lesion; which is why you wouldn’t find a lot of escorts wanting to be whipped during an encounter. However, there are a lot of people who offer their services to be your submissive partner in the bedroom.

Therefore, you wouldn’t have to give up your wet dream of punishing someone with a whip when you can’t find an intimate partner who’s into the same fetish as you are.

If you do have a partner who loves getting whipped, or loves whipping you, but you don’t have a whip of your own, then it’s time to get a little bit creative! There was one story that I’ve heard from another kinky acquaintance of mine, where a guy was working in a photographic darkroom one day and a colleague of his wanted to be playful and whipped him with a long film strip; which turned him on a lot.

If a guy can get turned on by getting whipped, then think of all of the other things that would make his boxers drenched in cum. Costume necklace beads, Ethernet cables, even a small tree branch can do the trick for you! Nevertheless, it’s always recommended that you have a look on the internet for durable whips that you can use for years and years!

What do you think about whipping?

If you’re thinking about the kind of scenario that you’d like to act out, don’t use ’50 Shades of Grey’ as a reference; the movie and the book makes the fetish look more abusive than saucy. I’d recommend looking up porn websites like ‘Kink’ or ‘WhippedAss’; ‘WhippedAss’ is dedicated to lesbians who are into female dominatrixes giving them a whipping!

For those who want to find other people to talk to about the art of whipping and how it turns them on so much, you find them all on Escort Scotland; the site where you would be able to find at least one person who is into the same fetishes as you are. I’m more than happy to hear about your erotic thoughts on whipping by posting them in the comment section below!

Zoe Jaspers
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