It’s a fact that sometimes, women fake it in bed. There are so many different reasons for this. They might simply not be in the mood for sex, or the sex might be bad and they wish to end it. On some occasions the sex might be good, but it isn’t enough to get them off and so the woman will fake it to make their partner feel better. This means that men tend to come more during sex than woman.
This has resulted in the orgasm gap. For a long time many believed that this wasn’t real, but the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behaviour discovered that it was very real. In fact, their survey revealed that men orgasm 91% of the time, while women get to come just 64% of the time.
For some, this wasn’t good enough. They wanted to close the orgasm gap, and they decided to do so in the simplest way possible. How? They created OMGYES, aiming to help women understand their pleasure better so that they can get off.
What is OMGYES?
The amount of research done on female pleasure is minimal, as the video below explains. And it is for that reason that the OMGYES website was created. They wanted to ensure that the world had access to one of the largest research studies on the topic, hoping to “fill the gap in scientific and public understanding of sexual pleasure”.
The research involved over 2,000 women, all aged between 18 and 95. And while this was a relatively large scale study, a number of similarities appeared in the answers.
There were certain techniques that women did that seemed to constantly appear. The problem there was that some of these techniques “hadn’t even been named”, and so the website helped to give them a name.
The chance to explore female pleasure
The website isn’t just a place for you to look at the things they discovered and go “oh that’s interesting”. They actually want you to explore female pleasure, and are giving you the perfect place to do it.
This fantastic resource not only tells you the science behind pleasure, but it also has videos to deepen your understanding. Some of the videos are simply interviews, but others are interactive, touchable videos to help you better understand the techniques.
In other words, you can learn the techniques to get women to come in the bedroom. And because they cover a wide range of techniques from edging and layering to multiple orgasms, you’ll get all of the skills you need to make them come.
It isn’t just for women
We wouldn’t blame you if you thought that this website was just for women. After all, it focuses on female pleasure and enjoyment during solo-play and foreplay. So surely it is just for women, right?
Wrong. According to OMGYES, their users are a diverse group. “Approximately half of our users are female and half are male”. And it isn’t just for singles!
Couples are also registering and signing up in order to learn the latest techniques in pleasure. Pleasure is a big part of a relationship. If you aren’t sexually satisfied or happy in the relationship, you aren’t likely to stay. So instead of faking it, like many do, it is worth being honest about what you want, as you might just achieve it with the help of the website.
Closing the orgasm gap
This website has such a simple idea to close the orgasm gap, and that is just by showing people that it is okay to talk about pleasure in an open and honest way. There is absolutely nothing wrong with talking about sex, and hopefully this website will prove that to you.
So if you aren’t quite ready to make the one-time payment (early bird pricing £29, later £49) to gain access to these videos, what can you do to help close the orgasm gap for you and your partner?
Talk about sex. Yes, it really is that simple. If your partner feels as though they cannot talk to you about sex, they are going to avoid the topic. They’ll fake an orgasm instead of talking to you about how to get them off, and you’ll never learn what it is they want in the bedroom. Start by being honest with them about what you desire and you’ll find that they do the same!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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