When we think about spanking, people tend to focus purely on the pain of it. In fact, that is the same with pretty much all BDSM. People think it is all about the pain and being punished, but when it comes to being spanked, that isn’t the case at all.
Yes, the pain is a part of it, and for some the idea of being punished in such a way is a turn on. But there is so much more to it than that, and we take a look at some of the other reasons we love to get spanked.
It heightens sensitivity
When you get spanked, you’ll notice that something happens to your body. Your skin where you were hit will feel more sensitive. Every single touch and stroke is enhanced, which means it can feel incredible when you partner touches you.
This is because spanking brings the blood to the surface of the skin. It is the reason that Wartenberg wheels are so popular in BDSM. It heightens the sensitivity and the sensations you feel, making stimulation that much more incredible.
You are giving up control
Sometimes it can be nice to not have to think about what is happening during sex. If you partner tells you to bend over, going along with it can be fun. You don’t have to start worrying about thinking of a new position to try or a fun way to spice up foreplay.
You are giving control over to your partner. They will take the reins and effortlessly guide you through this kinky act. If you find it is too much, you can stop the scene simply by stating your safe word. You then get the chance to talk through with your partner why you stopped it, and this can bring you closer together.
Trying something new
We all like to experiment with sex. If we do the same things over and over again we find that we get bored, and so stepping out of your comfort zone is a lot of fun. The worst that happens is that you find something you don’t enjoy. The best? You love it.
Trying something new can help you reach new heights of pleasure. With spanking you’ll find that this can be catered to your desires completely, so whether you are new to the world of BDSM or have tried a few different things in the realm, you can make spanking perfect for you.
We love spanking!
If you are brave or curious enough to try it, spanking can be a lot of fun. Yes, pain and being punished can be a part of it, but for a lot of people they simply love how sensitive it makes them. It feels incredible, so why wouldn’t they try it?
Do you have a lot of experience with being spanked, or even being the one placing a spank or two on your partner’s ass? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below, and tell us why you love it so much.
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