It has to be said, prostate massages are becoming very popular. Once seen as a little bit ‘gay’, now getting that little place inside your bottom tickled is being tried by many guys, whether they visit escorts or not.
Locating The Prostate
For those who don’t know, the prostate is 3-4 inches (7.5-10cm) from the beginning of the anal canal, and it’s about 1 inch (2.5 cm) wide. It’s just behind and above the deepest portion of the penis, and is right below the bladder.
The prostate is just like the g-spot in women; it becomes swollen when someone is aroused. The argument from guys who like it is that a prostate orgasm is stronger and more of a full bodied experience than other kinds.
But how do you do you have this kind of fun? Well, we are here to give you a few tips.
Tips For a Massage
Anal penetration, with the help of some lube, is the best way to get at the prostate.
The prostate should feel like a ripe plum: firm, with a little give to it. If you can’t feel it, it may not have swelled up enough, so the guy needs to become aroused. I am sure the ladies reading this can solve that!
When it comes to the touching, the guy should feel massive excitement. If he feels the need to urinate however, that means the right place it being touched but is being done too hard. Therefore it needs to be done softer.
As well as a finger, sex toys can be used. However, with both fingers and sex toys, we need to make sure there is plenty of lube. The anus is not self lubricating so needs plenty of help or it can become quite painful.
The real key is to not use an in and out motion. If you focus on the prostate you will increase the pleasure. An in-out motion just detracts from that. This is a prostate massage, not anal sex.
Relax and Enjoy it
The orgasm from a prostate massage can be fun, and the orgasms beyond intense, but it is better to not just focus on the orgasm. Just get used to finding ways that the guy likes it, the right place, the right pressure. If you can get that right, then the orgasm will happen anyway. There really is no need to panic if it doesn’t happen immediately or there are teething problems.
We hope this guide and the pictures have helped you. Anal play is becoming a really big thing, so what better time is there to try out this naughty kind of fun??
Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.
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