I am a gamer and proud. I love playing games, especially when I’m feeling stressed as a way to let off steam. I also love having sex. It’s fun and feels amazing, and it is another great way to work out some tension. So why don’t we combine these two loves to create gamer sex?
Gamers have a pretty shitty reputation. Most people assume that gamers are all young men who can’t hold a conversation. This isn’t the case, as the ESA pointed out. The average gamer is 31 years old, and nearly half are women, like me. Talk about breaking stereotypes!
Plus, studies have shown that gamers have more sex. If you love your video games, maybe it is time you started thinking about gamer sex.
Kinky cosplay
Cosplay is a huge trend right now. If you have ever been to a convention, then you’ll have seen people dressed up as their favourite characters. People can go all out with them, using EVA foam to create realistic-looking armour that isn’t going to weigh them down, and even working on their accent so that they sound like the character.
The chances are that you have a favourite video game character you love to fantasise over. I’m a fan of Lara Croft and also Miranda Lawson from the Mass Effect Series. You might like someone different.
The best thing about these characters is that you can easily try a little gamer sex role play in the bedroom, if you are feeling adventurous. Obviously creating Mercy’s wings might provide a bit too much of a challenge for you, but there are still plenty of things you could do. You could try recreating some of the hottest sex scenes from the Witcher 3?
Challenge your partner
If you want to make things interesting between you and your partner, and you both enjoy playing video games, you could always challenge each other to a video game tournament of sorts. It’ll be fun and give you both something to play for.
For example, you could both write down something you’d like to try in bed that the other person is willing to try. Then you set the rules. Whoever wins the game gets what they want. So if you are hoping to rim her asshole, you can set that as your ‘reward’ for winning the game.
Then you play the game or games you have chosen. The winner will become clear after a while, and then you can end your game and take your fun into the bedroom. It will make things interesting because it challenges you both, and ensures that the winner gets a treat at the end.
Distraction
Gamer sex doesn’t have to be complicated. You don’t have to set rules or dress up if you don’t want to. In fact, one of my favourite things to do gives my partner the chance to play a video game while I do everything in my power to distract them.
It should be noted that big games are a good time to do this. For example, if they are playing a ranked match, you might want to avoid it. If, however, it is just a casual game, by all means, go for it.
A fuck buddy of mine is a fan of racing games. While she plays and tries to get to first place each match, I’ll be between her legs, using my tongue to add an extra challenge to her game. It is fun for you both, especially because of what it can lead to afterwards.
Why gamer sex works
There are plenty of different things that you can do in the bedroom to spice things up, but sometimes getting a little nerdy is a great way to do it. Video games can lead to some amazing sex if you are willing to try something new.
How do you add gamer sex to the bedroom? Let me know your ideas in the comment box below. Which video game sex scene do you think is the hottest to recreate with your partner?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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