Five Tips for Not Ruining a Booty Call!

At some point in our lives, many of us have had what the American’s would call, a booty call. That is someone who we can ring up and enjoy a no strings attached sexual encounter with. This isn’t the case of using someone for sex, whilst they get emotionally attached. They have the same views on the ‘relationship’ that you have.

Yet it is still a relationship that can be messed up like any other. Actually the different dynamic makes it even easier to screw up. That is why we have put together five easy steps to not ruining a ‘booty call’. Here goes.

1) No Emotional Attachment

This sounds like a gimme, but you wouldn’t believe how many people get emotionally attached during these encounters. For some, it becomes like a relationship, even if it isn’t.

If you are the kind of person who doesn’t separate sex and emotion very well, don’t get involved in the first place. If you are starting to feel emotionally attached when you pick up the phone, call it off. If emotions get involved, it is just a car crash waiting to happen, and nobody wants that.

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2) Use Protection

There are two main reason why this is important. Firstly, this is not an exclusive relationship. You have no idea what the other person is doing when they are away from you, so make sure you don’t catch any ‘little reminders’ of your time together.

Secondly, you and your booty call are meant to have some fun together, then at some point, move onto your own different paths. It becomes very difficult to do that if you have a child together, so, as Jeremy Kyle would say, “put something on the end of it!”

3) Be Respectful

You may not be in a relationship, but that doesn’t mean you have to act like an ass. Remember, having a sense of emotional detachment, and treating the other person as a piece of meat are two different things.Treat the other person with kindness as this time together is meant to be fun.

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4) Don’t just Call when you are Really Drunk

OK, the person is there for when you both want sex, but who really wants sex with you when you can’t even stand up? The booty call won’t last long if the other person only sees you when you are collapsing through the door at the end of a long boozing session. Make sure you sober up a bit before you go round. This will also help your performance.

5) It Won’t Last Forever

Booty call’s are not designed to last forever. They usually last for a very short space of time, so manage your expectations when you enter into it. If you get bombed off by the other person, it isn’t like losing a real relationship, so don’t fret.

Visiting an Escort

The benefit of meeting an Aberdeen escort, or one from anywhere to be fair, is that they can offer you companionship, without the stress of messing it up. As long as you are respectful, the fun can just go from there. It is widely seen as a very good alternative to a booty call.

For those who really do like the idea of a booty call, then we hope these steps help you out. Just remember to have fun. After all, that is what it is supposed to be!

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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