We might all hope that everything runs smoothly in the bedroom, but that isn’t always the case. We might have to deal with a number of difficult penis problems, and every single one of them can ruin our self confidence. They make us feel as though we just aren’t good enough in bed and that, no matter what we do, we can’t satisfy our partner. It makes us feel awful, but there are actually ways that you can deal with these problems to make things better for you in the bedroom.
There are a few different things that can really help when dealing with penis problems. You might not want to hear it, but communicating with your partner and telling them what is going on with you is really going to help. Having patience and taking your time to explore different solutions can also make a huge difference, but if you’re reading this blog thinking “I’ve done all of those things and it hasn’t made a difference” we have some other great tips to help you deal with some common penis problems.
Erectile dysfunction
Having problems keeping it up? You aren’t the only one. No, really. This isn’t something we are just saying. It is believed that one in ten men all over the world suffer from erectile dysfunction, regardless of age. Yes, it is believed that around half of men aged between 40 and 70 have troubles with it, but even young men just getting to grips with sex can encounter it… so what can you do?
First of all, you need to figure out whether the problem is psychological or if it is physical. Often, it is a psychological issue. If you are feeling particularly low or anxious about something, you are more likely to have trouble getting your soldier standing to attention. This often makes you feel worse and it ends up being this never-ending downward spiral. So instead of putting pressure on yourself to perform, work on dealing with the stress in your life. Hit the gym, talk to someone, whatever helps. You’ll notice a huge difference.
However, sometimes erectile dysfunction can be caused by physical issues. When your body is the reason for your penis problems, it is a sign to head to the doctor. It can be caused by a number of things, from injury and hormonal problems to the narrowing of blood vessels in your cock. Either way, your doctor should be able to help you with these physical issues. Talking to them about it might stress you out, but being unable to rise to the occasion in bed is going to stress you out more.
Premature ejaculation
There are so many ejaculation penis problems out there that trying to deal with them all is tough. However, we’re here to talk about the most common penis problems, and when it comes to ejaculation we have to talk about finishing too early.
Premature ejaculation is by far the most common problem that men face when it comes to orgasms and sex. They will find things get too intense too quickly for them, and they will cum before they are ready to. It is one of the most frustrating things to happen in the bedroom, but don’t panic. Panicking and beating yourself up about it only makes the situation worse. However, because this problem can really damage your self confidence, it is best to come up with a solution to it as quickly as possible.
Self help can go a long way to helping you overcoming premature ejaculation. Some people find that jerking off an hour or so before they have sex can help, as it effectively turns the sex session into a “round two”. You can also buy thicker condoms, which often work well as your partner still gets to feel your cock sliding in and out, but you won’t be as sensitive to the feeling her pussy clamping down on you. However, one of the best things you can do is stop the fun when you get too close to orgasm. This gives you the chance to calm down a little, and during this time you can use your mouth and tongue to please your partner. It is a win/win situation!
Phimosis
This might not be as common as the conditions about, but phimosis is a difficult one to deal with, particularly for your partner. They might not know the best way to handle your cock, or they’ll touch it with such care that it doesn’t really work for you.
Basically, your foreskin is too tight on your cock, which can make it difficult, painful, and sometimes even impossible to pull it over the head so that the fun can begin. For some people, it isn’t really one of those penis problems that they feel they need to address, but some of you might experience redness, swelling, and a little bit of soreness.
Regularly washing can help, as you can play with the foreskin and see how it moves. Don’t try to force it, though, as you might end up doing some lasting damage. Most people figure out a way to cope with phimosis, but sometimes they find that the only way to deal with it is to see their doctor.
When to get help with penis problems
Lots of people find that self help goes a long way with penis problems. They usually manage to find a solution that works for them and they don’t have to put themselves through the stress of going to see a doctor and talking about the issue. Sometimes though, this solution is unavoidable.
If you find that you are getting worked up and nervous about it, try your best to relax. Your doctor isn’t going to laugh at you. They have probably dealt with this so many times in their professional life that they really don’t find it that surprising anymore. Besides, they are there to help, and if you can talk them through the various self help techniques you have tried, you’ll also be making their job a lot easier.
We know that talking about your penis problems can be terrifying, which is why so many will visit forums and create an account so that they can stay anonymous while getting help. If you’re having a penis problem we haven’t listed above, or if you simply want more information, you’ll find that the Escort Scotland forum is the perfect place to go. You’ll find a growing community of people just like you eager to help, and they might have the perfect solution for you.
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Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
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At the moment I haven’t got any problems with my toy but to be honest I am really jealous of girls because they will never suffer any of this problems..
Keep it clean and if you have a premature ejaculation issue, I’m sure the escort will be laughing, you cum in the first 30 minutes, good bye 😀
But I am sure some will have sensitive condoms so you can last a little longer.