If you do it right, anal sex can be a lot of fun. It feels fantastic for both of you and is a kinky taboo that you are going to love. The problem is that, when it comes to anal sex positions, we tend to think of only one: doggy style. It is the go to anal sex position but in time can make sex really boring.
That is why it is a good idea to mix it up a little and try some different anal sex positions out. Not sure where to start? We have a few suggestions for you below, so take a look and see which anal sex positions might just do it for you.
Missionary
The missionary position is a great one to go to if you want to keep things a little more vanilla. For many it is the best position to try, especially if you are still relatively new to anal. The key is to position your ass at the perfect angle, so get some pillows and stick them underneath her hips to raise her up a little.
With enough pillows and support, you should be able to lube up and slide right into her pussy. It will feel great for you both and you can make some minor adjustments during sex to increase the pleasure. She can bring her legs closer to her chest or even straighten them up and over your shoulders. It will feel and look incredibly sexy.
Spooning
Sometimes you want to find the anal sex positions that allow you to get close and intimate. Spooning is a favourite for many, but people often struggle to use this position for anal. Thankfully there are a few things you can do to make penetration easier.
The best thing to do is get your partner to curl up and pull her legs towards her body. This will put her ass in the perfect position for you to slip your cock inside. You can make it even better for her by bringing a vibrator in to the bedroom! Put it against her clit or slide it into her pussy for a bit of double penetration!
Cowgirl
One of the concerns that a lot of people have when it comes to anal sex is that it will hurt. If your partner is a little unsure or they are convinced that leaving you in charge is going to hurt them, you can still enjoy anal. You just have to give them control instead.
Cowgirl, or girl on top, is one of those anal sex positions that people tend to forget about. However, it works really well. Your partner gets to be in charge and you get to enjoy seeing her bouncing up and down on your dick. You can even make it sexier by getting her to turn around so that she is in the reverse cowgirl position. Just make sure you don’t start thrusting up to meet her until she is good and ready for you.
Lie down
You might like the idea of doggy style sex but find that it doesn’t work well for you during anal. It might make things go a little too quick for your tastes, and if that is the case you should try this position instead. Get your partner to lie down on their stomach, legs together, before you slip your cock into her ass.
Not only will it feel nice and tight, but it also helps to elevate her ass up. This gives you better access and, if you add a pillow underneath, can help to stimulate her clit. You get to enjoy intense anal sex in a fun new way!
The classic doggy style
Of course, when people think of anal sex positions there is one that comes to mind first of all: doggy style. Doggy style is the go to position for a reason. It has a huge number of advantages to this position, as your partner can adjust the angle in a number of ways to make it more intense.
So if you are going to try anal, why not go with the classic? If you want to make it even kinkier, do it in front of a mirror. It will look incredibly hot and turn you both on even more.
Your favourite anal sex positions
We all have our favourite positions that we really enjoy. If they work, then why change them? But if you are hoping to try something different, hopefully this blog has given you a few ideas.
Have you got some other hot sex positions you think we should know about? You can share them with us in the comments below. Tell us all about your favourite anal sex positions and see what others have to say about them.
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As long as she is the one taking it, then I will love it.
Lying down doggy is my favourite in over all.
It seems Lara knows her stuff, wouldn’t mind her joining in for a session 😉
Lying down doggy just feels so good, doesn’t it? 😉