It happens to all of us: we can let sex get a bit boring. We stop being adventurous in the bedroom, and that means that we will fall into a routine. You might share a few kisses before making your way down their body and enjoying some oral. Then, after around five minutes of this, you’ll get into position and fuck. It’s fun, but it has the potential to be so much better.
There are a few different things that you can do to inject a little bit of kinky fun to sex, and some of the best things you can try are kinky sex games. These kinky sex games give you the chance to spice up sex and get to know your partner better. Plus, they are a lot of fun!
Here on the Escort Scotland blog we take a look at six kinky sex games that you must try, telling you everything you need to enjoy them and what kind of things you can expect to happen next.
1. Roll the dice
Sex dice should be a staple in every bedroom. Sure, they might seem like a novelty item you buy as a bit of a joke, but they are actually really useful to have to hand. Best of all, they are pretty cheap to buy. In fact, you can pick up sex dice for a few quid in the right shops. And if you don’t want to spend any money, you can actually make your own using any dice you already own, a notepad, and a pen to write down the things each number.
They are especially useful for foreplay, as you are forced to spice things up. Instead of immediately going to kiss your partner’s neck, you might roll the dice and find that you are told to lick their ear. You can also time yourself to make sure you are spending enough time on each task, and you might just uncover something kinky about your partner you didn’t know!
2. Suggestion box
We aren’t always comfortable talking to our partner about what we want, and some of the best kinky sex games involve talking. So, if you find that you are struggling to open up about the sexiest things that you want to try in the bedroom, you should create your own suggestion box or fantasy box.
You each take the time to write down, on bits of paper, your deepest and darkest fantasies that you would love to enjoy with your partner. You fold them up and put them into a bowl or a box. One at a time you draw a suggestion out and read it. It gives you the chance to talk about some of your biggest fantasies, and it also allows you to have those tough conversations with your partner. Make an agreement before hand to talk about ever idea. You might just find something new you enjoy, and then you can try it out together!
3. The countdown
A lot of the time, because our routine does not change, we find that we get very good at going through the motions quickly. From initiating sex, to foreplay, and then the finish, a lot of us can be done in ten minutes… sometimes even five. We get so used to fucking that we forget to take our time with it. That is why looking for the right kinky sex games to help you slow down can help.
If you really want to slow things down, keep a timer in the bedroom. You can even use your phone if you want to, setting a timer and saying that you will only move from foreplay to sex after ten minutes. You’ll find that you both take your time with the foreplay, really teasing each other, and when the timer goes off you will have some of the most explosive sex of your life.
4. Blindfolded fondle
There is something incredibly sexy about being blindfolded. It shows a lot of trust between you are your partner, and it is a great way to spice things up if you are keen to try something new. With your partner still dressed and in another room, put the blindfold on them and carefully lead them into the bedroom. Have some sexy music playing in the background to make it even more exciting.
Now you can take your time to tease them. The blindfold helps to enhance each touch you make on their skin, which is a huge turn on. In a matter of moments you could have your partner moaning and groaning beneath you are begging for you to let them cum. Make sure you take turns with the blindfold so that you appreciate just how hot it can be.
5. Strip poker
In your home you will have a pack of cards. This means that, for those looking for the best budget kinky sex games to play, you have absolutely everything that you need for strip poker. Strip poker works a lot like normal poker, but instead of playing for money, you play for clothes. The better you are at it, the quicker you’ll be able to get your partner down to their birthday suit.
It is a hell of a lot of fun to play, especially if you set up a table for it. See who can get the other out of their clothes first. It can be even hotter if you agree that the loser has to become the sex slave to the winner for the next half an hour. It will add a kinky twist to one of your favourite games!
6. Juicy Jenga
This one might require a little preparation, but you’ll find that it is well worth it. You’ll need to have the game of Jenga to hand (or a version of it), and your partner. Set up the tower together and then strip. You should both be sitting on either side of the tower naked, and this is where the fun begins.
Then you play the game. However, this game is a little different. Instead of simply playing the game, you are going to try and distract your partner. You have to try and pleasure them as they pull from the tower. Oral works well here, especially if they are bending over. If they knock over the tower or abandon a pull, then they must complete a forfeit. What the forfeits are is completely up to you… but make sure they are fun as you will have to do the same if you fail! You’ll find that Jenga becomes one of your favourite games to do!
Kinky sex games to try
The beauty of trying out different kinky sex games is that the possibilities are endless. If you can come up with your own rules, you can turn any of the different games that you play into fun and kinky sex games. All you need is a little bit of imagination to make it happen.
Kinky sex games can really help you out in the bedroom, especially if things have started to get stale and fall into a routine. Following the rules of a game means that you have to try something new, and that can be a hell of a lot of fun. Which is your favourite game mentioned above? Are there some great ones we have missed? Let us know.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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