Pretty much everybody watches porn. Not all of us are happy to announce it, but you can bet that many people enjoy searching their favourite porn site in the hopes of finding something hot to watch while they masturbate. Watching porn is fun, but the media likes to suggest that it is bad for you.
Apparently, watching porn gives us unrealistic expectations of sex and relationships. That is, if you watch it believe that everything you see in porn can translate to real life. But the majority of people understand that it doesn’t.
That said there are still plenty of different things that we can learn just by watching porn. So here on the Escort Scotland blog we take a look at 5 tricks you can pick up from your favourite stars.
Enthusiasm is important
If there is one thing that you will have noticed about porn, it is that it gets loud. Most of the porn stars you’ll watch fucking will make noise, and they make a lot of it! For many watching, this can be a bit of a turn off. It shows to them that it is fake and takes them out of the illusion that this is incredible sex.
That said, too much noise is still better than not enough. A lot of times you’ll find that bedrooms are silent, except for the occasional heavy breathing and the final moans when the action is coming to an end.
This can really put your partner off. They want to know that what they are doing is actually working for you. They want to hear that you are enjoying yourself, and moaning is the perfect way to do that. No, you don’t have to scream the house down, but the occasional “yes!” and “that feels so good” will do the trick.
Plenty of kissing!
Okay, so in porn you won’t see a great amount of foreplay. Often the couple on the screen will kiss for a while before moving straight on to sex. They’ll quickly strip each other and get down to business.
But kissing is still a huge part of porn. Think about it, how many porn videos have you seen where the couple didn’t kiss? We imagine that, if you can think of any, the number is low.
So in the bedroom, make sure that there is plenty of kissing. As your hands wander and explore your partner’s body, keep your lips working on theirs. It will help to make things more intimate, and often it can show your partner that the lead up to sex is just as important as the act itself.
Change positions for better endurance
In porn, the actors are able to last for at least half an hour. For many people this in unrealistic, but this is because the actors will take breaks. We won’t see it in the final film though, but what we will see is a lot of change.
How many positions do they go through in their sex sessions? Usually it is at least three positions. This slight break while changing positions, for those who find that they ejaculate quickly, can make the difference.
Also, you might find that some positions make is easier for you to last longer. Try switching between the three most popular positions during sex: missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, and see if it makes a difference.
Try new things
At some point in your life you will fall into a sex routine. It can be difficult to break out of, but you’ll notice that in porn, while there are similarities, things are often different each and every single time.
Yes, they might use the same positions that work for them, but they’ll change the order to add variety. They might even add some new acts in, just to spice things up.
So if there is one thing you can learn from watching porn, it is that trying new things in the bedroom is a good idea. The worst that can happen is that your partner doesn’t enjoy it, but at least you’ll have tried.
On the subject of orgasms
Most of us are well aware that, when we are watching porn, we are watching a lot of fake orgasms. Sure, you might like the idea of it, but women don’t orgasm from your cock sliding into her mouth. Those moans are fake, but you will notice a pattern in every single porn video.
The woman will come first. It may not be real, but the focus is on the pleasure of the woman before the man. The scene might end with the man coming onto the woman’s face, but she’ll have had plenty of orgasms before then.
So don’t see sex as a way for you to come. Instead, focus on your partner. Put their pleasure first and you’ll notice a huge difference in your sex life. It’ll be much more enjoyable for you both and you’ll be left feeling like a sex god!
Why we love watching porn
Watching porn is a lot of fun. We might all like different types, with some eager to see lesbians scissoring while others want to watch a woman being whipped, but porn turns us on. It gives us new ideas about sex and you can actually learn a lot by watching.
We’ve given you just a few of the tricks you can learn by watching porn, but we are sure that there are plenty of others. If you have spotted something we have missed that you think we should talk about, leave a comment in the box below.
You could even tell us which type of porn is the best for sexual education. Have you found that lesbian porn gives you the chance to pleasure your partner, or is it all about the MILFs?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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