For those hoping to spice up their sex life by injecting a little kinky into it, handcuffs are the perfect solution. You can buy them for reasonably cheap and can get some beautiful sets, such as rose gold ones. Plus, they are really versatile, ensuring you always have a use for them. But what if you are stuck for ideas?
You’ll be happy to know that there are plenty of handcuff games you can play with your partner, and the best thing is that the items you’ll need are small and compact. So you can take them with you on a romantic weekend away if you so wish! So what are these handcuff games? Well, I’m glad you asked.
1. Torturous foreplay
One of the best feelings in the world is when you have complete control over your partner and have them begging for more. If you have a pair of handcuffs you can really ramp up the sexual tension, simply by using them.
Torturous foreplay might sound bad, but it is actually a lot of fun and doesn’t involve pain, unless you want it to. You’ll simply handcuff your partner to the bed when foreplay is about to start. Then you’ll go about foreplay for as long as you want.
The game ends when they cannot take any more and beg for you to release them. If you do want to add a kinky BDSM twist, you can always take a feather and stroke them all over. It’ll be fun to watch them squirm!
2. No touch strip tease
Want to fuck in a chair? Handcuffs not only give you the perfect excuse to do it, but they’ll also offer you the perfect warm-up for it. A sexy striptease is a huge turn on, but often we struggle because our partner just can’t keep their hands off of us.
So use handcuffs. The best thing about handcuff games like this is that you get total control. By handcuffing your partner to the chair, all they can do is watch as you slowly remove layer after layer. You won’t have to bat their hand away, because they can’t move them. You can then leave them handcuffed during sex if you really want to add a kinky twist.
3. Connected together
Handcuffs don’t have to simply be used in kinky situations. If you are someone who loves intimacy during sex, then handcuffs allow you to have that in a totally new way… even if you never thought that they could.
The next time you are getting down to business, why not suggest that you and your partner be handcuffed together? Hear me out on this one.
If you are the two of couple that constantly changes sex position, or even do ones where you aren’t very close while doing it, being connected together by the handcuffs means you have to rethink things. You’ll have to choose your positions carefully and it’ll really spice things up. Just don’t lose the keys!
4. Sensory play
One of the best things about handcuff games is that they prevent your partner from touching you completely. It deprives them of their sense of touch, but you can make things even better if you decide to take away some of their other senses.
Handcuffing your partner is one thing, but adding a blindfold will be even better. They won’t know when each touch is coming, and even when they feel you stroking them, they can’t respond by touching you! It’ll be a lot of fun for you both.
Your favourite handcuff games
Handcuffs are one of the best pieces of sex equipment you can have, simply because they have so many uses. Whether you want to get more intimate or want to spice things up, you’ll find a use for them.
Got some handcuff games of your own you’d like to share? Why not leave a comment in the box below? You can tell us all of the dirty details and maybe inspire a few others to try something new.
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