Sometimes, punters might find themselves confused about just what is expected of them. With so many people looking down on the sex industry, it can be tough to figure out what you are supposed to do to ensure that you are a good client.
Escorts are often busy, meaning that they can’t take the time to sit you down and talk you through how you should behave. You should already have respect for them when you arrive, but there are little things you might get wrong. These little things might make you seem like a bad client. So here are the things that you need to know to be a good client.
To begin with, a good client understands that they need to show respect not only for the escort they see, but also all escorts. Don’t try bitching about one escort to another, because this just makes you come across as an asshole. Instead, keep things professional between you and you’ll have a much better time.
This also means that, if they ask you to leave for any reason, you should leave. This happens a lot at towards the end of a booking, when a client decides that they want to stay longer. Unless it has been agreed with the escort, you should be at the door when your appointment is coming to an end. You’ve paid for their time, so when it is up, it is up.
Arrive on time
Imagine that you’re going to see an escort in an area you aren’t familiar with. You should plan your journey carefully, taking into account things like traffic and time of day. Keep them updated, especially if you think that you are going to be late, as this could lead to a booking cancellation.
It is far better all around if you just turn up on time. Planning your journey can help with this. If you do turn up late, there is a chance that they might not see you. After all, your booking being pushed back can then push others back. So if you are late and they say no, apologise to them. Don’t argue.
Most clients are offered a shower at the beginning of their date. This is to ensure that you are clean. However, often it is a quick shower to refresh yourself after your journey. This is why you should take the time to clean yourself up before you head to your date.
Take a long shower and really clean every inch of you. A clean client is a good client, because the cleaner you are, the dirtier things can get. You wouldn’t want to arrive to a date to find your chosen escort hasn’t showered, so why put them through that?
Have the right money
When you have arrived on time to your date, nice and clean, one of the first things you need to do is hand over the money. Usually when booking, your chosen escort will tell you how they want the money. Some want it in an envelope, some prefer to as it is. Check with them if you aren’t sure.
You need to turn up with the right amount of money. Don’t expect them to have change, as this can delay your date and cut into your time together. Also, don’t be that guy who tries to haggle. “I’ve only got this much on me” or “another escort is cheaper” won’t work, unless you are hoping to be shown the door.
The way that some people feel about escorting means that you have to be discreet when booking an appointment. If you are looking for someone discreet, you need to be discreet too. You’d be amazed how many clients seem to struggle with this part.
When you are heading to an escort’s location, act as though you belong there and that you know where you are going. If you have your head held high and walk with confidence, no-one will look twice at you. If you are keeping your head down and trying to avoid all eye contact, you’re going to look shifty and draw attention to yourself. Don’t do that.
Being a good client means…
In reality, it isn’t difficult to be a good client. You simply need to use your common sense and show respect. It is that simple, but some people forget the little things, like having the right change or not making what they are up to obvious.
Do you consider yourself a good client? What advice would you give to others to help them out? Share these tips by leaving a comment in the box below.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
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