Most of us are happy to admit that we love ourselves. We love pleasuring ourselves, of giving ourselves those intense toe-curling orgasms that leave our legs shaking and our heart pounding in our chest. The problem is that no matter how good it feels, it can get a little repetitive.
We need to change things up a little by trying new masturbation positions. Since it is Masturbation Month, this seems like the perfect time to do it. Not sure how? I have some great masturbation positions for you to try, so whether you have a penis or a pussy, take a look below to find the right positions for you.
Mirror, mirror, on the wall
Mirrors are fantastic for spicing up sex and even masturbation, if you know how to use them. There are some great things you can do with them, as the cool feel of the reflective surface will turn you on. Best of all is the things you will see in the mirror.
Why not position yourself in front of the mirror? You might find it easier to kneel in front of the mirror, as this will give you a great view of what you are doing. Whether you are putting your hand to work or playing with a toy, you can watch yourself in the mirror.
You’ll get to know yourself better. You can watch your reaction with every stroke you make, watching how your body flushes with heat as your orgasm gets closer and closer. It will be a huge turn on to you and well worth it!
Don’t worry if you don’t have a full length mirror to give you those great views. What you can do instead is place a mirror on the floor. Plenty of people will do this to get an up-close look at themselves while they masturbate.
You can squat over it or even attach your favourite toy to the mirror’s surface. You can then fuck it and watch from a new perspective what it is like. It is like POV porn but with you as the star!
The chair ride
If you have a dining chair to hand, or even just an office chair, this might be the perfect pedestal for your masturbation. There are so many fun masturbation positions for you to try involving a chair, but this has to be one of my favourites.
See if you can grind your way to orgasm. It might take a little while to find the right position, but you’ll get there. If you have a sex toy you can also position it on the chair for your pleasure!
If you don’t want to grind away at your chair, you could simply sit on a cushion on the chair, spread your legs wide, and masturbate as you would normally. This slight adjustment in position might not seem like much at first, but by sitting on the pillow in a certain way, and spreading your legs, it’ll feel much more intense.
Make the most of it by completely stripping off. The chances are that, every other time you masturbate in a chair, you are clothed. It feels rushed, so try to slow things down. Stripping off is a good way to do this, as you’ll then want to take your time since you’ve gone to the effort of getting completely naked.
Face down on the bed
Lying on your back in bed tends to be the default sex position for many of us. I’ll admit that this is the position I’ll adopt when I’m in bed, eager to masturbate my evening away. However, it can be boring, so instead of lying on your back, try facing your bed instead.
This works whether you have a pussy or a cock, because there are so many different things you can do. You could stick your hand underneath your body and masturbate that way. The change in position will feel a hell of a lot of fun, and it’ll feel oh so good.
Not convinced by this position? Grab a pillow and get humping. You can position your pillows so that you can thrust between them or grind on them, which will make you feel good. It will be a huge turn on for you to try it this way.
You could also get on your knees and raise your ass in the air while keeping your upper body close to the bed. Mimicking the doggy style position is going to feel amazing, and it will make a change to your typical style. You’ll want to go fast and hard so do what feels right!
Our favourite masturbation positions
These are some of my favourite masturbation positions because they feel different. You might not be convinced, but they really do make a drastic change. Try them out for yourself! Better yet, try them all to see how good they make you feel.
You can also share your favourite masturbation positions in the comments below. Which positions are your favourite when you are jerking yourself off? Tell us all about them and why they work so well for you.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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