Kinks help to make life that little bit more exciting. They can spice things up in the bedroom and give you the chance to explore something new. You can expand your horizons, testing to see the hottest turn ons you have. For some people, one of the biggest turn ons is male chastity.
Male chastity might seem like a very simple idea on the surface. Most people know what chastity entails, but when you get into it, it is more complicated. There are plenty of different things you’ll need to think about. Curious to try it for yourself? Here are the essentials you need to know for getting your cock locked up.
What is male chastity about?
If we look at any of the dictionary definitions of chastity, we are told that it is “abstention from sexual intercourse; virginity or celibacy”. In other words, you won’t be having sex any time soon. For some people, this is easier said than done. We love having sex and it feels amazing!
For some, simply saying that they won’t do it isn’t enough. Humans are weird. Often we are told not to do something and that just makes us want it more. How many times have you seen a sign saying ‘wet paint: do not touch’ and reached out to touch it? If you’re anything like me, it will be a high number.
When it comes to the kinky act of using male chastity devices, they stop us from giving in to the temptation. If you are wearing one, whether it is a cock cage or a chastity belt, you can’t get to your dick. You won’t be able to play with it. They can even make it uncomfortable or painful if you get an erection, so you’ll avoid doing it. Sex becomes something you don’t think about when you are wearing it.
Why do it?
The fact that using chastity devices stop you from touching yourself and from having sex is incredibly appealing to some. It takes control out of their hands, especially if they give the key to the device to their trusted partner. The keyholder then gets control, deciding when you can be released from it, if you so wish to be.
Another big thrill from it? You have no control. Submitting in this way is appealing to so many people. They don’t want to have to think about things in the bedroom, and by giving control up in this way, they don’t have to. It shows a huge amount of trust between you and your partner by giving them the key.
Some people also like the uncomfortable feeling and the pain the chastity devices can cause when you get aroused. As your cock gets hard, there isn’t really anywhere for it to go. This can lead to it feeling squeezed and restrained.
Finding the right equipment
You’ll want to think carefully about what you are going to cage your cock in, depending on your desires. If you are hoping to ease into it, it might be best to invest in something like a cock cage. Cock cages are available in many different places, and while you can buy plastic ones, a lot of people opt for stainless steel so that they can be cleaned more easily.
They work by holding your penis down. They make getting an erection uncomfortable, but it also means that you can’t. Your penis won’t be able to achieve its usual glorious stand-at-attention pose. It is trapped, and the visual is pretty stunning when you have it properly in place!
If you want to go the whole hog, you might want to opt for a chastity belt. These belts are more comfortable than the dick cages, but they work on a much bigger scale. Instead of making it difficult for you to get an erection, they’ll prevent anyone accessing your genital area. It is, effectively, total control over you.
Some advice for the wearer
If you have decided that you want to use a cock cage, there are a few things you’ll need to know. For a start, peeing standing up isn’t going to work for you. You’ll find pissing through the bars of the cage while standing difficult, so get used to sitting down on the toilet.
Eager to wear it out and about for that extra thrill? Wear tight-fitting underwear. The padlock will rattle as you move, so each step you take is going to announce to everyone around you that you have something metal in your pants. Tight underpants can help to prevent that.
You won’t be able to wear it all of the time because you’ll need to give your cock the chance to breathe. Plus, the cage will start to smell as a result of the urine, sweat, and pre-cum that might have gotten onto the inside of it. So take it off, give yourself a break, and clean it properly.
Are you a fan of chastity?
Male chastity is an intriguing subject for many of us. You either want to try it or you want to be the one holding the key. I don’t know about you, but the idea of a man pleading with me to hand over the key so I can give him his release is kind of appealing.
What do you think? Would you put your cock in a cage for the sake of chastity, or do you prefer your member to have total freedom? Let us know what you think by leaving a comment in the box below.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.