I love having sex. Of all the times of day to have it, I’ll admit that I prefer morning sex. The problem comes when I’ve had an awful night’s sleep or I have a lot to do that day. I just don’t have the energy to fuck in the way that I might want to.
This is where trying new positions comes in handy. Some of them are perfect for those low energy days. Here are some of my favourite lazy sex positions to try.
Spooning
Spooning is made for lazy sex. It is the position we go to, especially first thing in the morning, when we want to fuck. It doesn’t require a lot of energy to do and yet it still makes you feel amazing when you do it. What more could you ask for?
It is super easy to get into. All you need to do is both lie on your side, facing the same way. You then shuffle closer together. You can rub against one another for a little while, before sliding inside of them.
The reason that spooning is perfect for low energy sex is because thrusting is more of a challenge. It means hard and fast sex is out of the question. Instead you’ll grind on one another, slowly building to an intense orgasm together. The person receiving can then stimulate themselves or be stimulated by the giver to enhance it.
The lotus
Lazy sex doesn’t have to always be done lying down. This is why the lotus is a great position to try. You are both sitting in this position, entwined in one another, which helps to increase the intimacy between you. It also provides amazing stimulation.
One of you will sit down and cross your legs. The partner will then straddle their lap, wrapping their legs around them. You can choose to either bounce up and down or grind against them, but if you haven’t the energy, grinding will work best.
The position means that they will hit either the g-spot or stimulate the prostate, making it great for either party. You can also kiss a lot in this position, which is amazing for anyone eager to be a little more intimate.
The dirty dangle
Missionary can feel boring, and while we want to have lazy sex, we don’t want it to be boring. We want a little excitement, which is why the dirty dangle is a great compromise.
It is missionary with a twist. You’ll slide further down the bed so that the receiver’s arms and head are dangling over the end of the bed. Then you will get into missionary as normal and enjoy some intense sex.
It feels good because of the slight change in position. It allows your back to arch slightly, which can make stimulation of certain spots even more intense. It might just be the ideal twist you need to spice things up while also saving your energy.
Bootyful view
If you are anything like me, you’ll love positions like reverse cowgirl. However, when I’m feeling lazy or like I don’t have the energy, the last thing that I want to do is bounce up and down on my partner. I’d rather take things slow.
The bootyful view position is the ideal twist on reverse cowgirl. As you can see from the image below, the receiver will be lying on their partner’s legs while their partner slips into them. You can effectively get into the reverse cowgirl position before the giver sits up.
Finding the right rhythm is a challenge but it ensures you’ll be hitting the right spots. It feels amazing for you both and is great if you want to take your time and save your energy for the rest of the day.
The ultimate lazy sex
Lazy sex doesn’t have to mean boring. It can actually be exciting and thrilling without requiring all of your energy. That is why these positions are so good, and they are worth trying.
What is your favourite position for when you are feeling lazy or simply have low energy? Tell us all about it in the comments. What position works for you?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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