One of the simplest and most fun ways to spice things up in the bedroom doesn’t involve standing on your hand while you fuck or buying the most expensive sex toys. In fact, it doesn’t cost a thing and is really easy to pick up. Want to know what this magical trick is? It’s dirty talk.
For some, the idea of talking dirty in the bedroom is very intimidating. They think that they are going to make a fool of themselves and leave their partner lying there with wide eyes as they think about what has just been said to them. They think that they just haven’t got the imagination to pull it off, and so they simply avoid it at all costs, sticking to what they know.
If you are eager to spice things up in the bedroom but feel a little cautious about using dirty talk to do it, you are in the right place. Here on Escort Scotland we have some of the best phrases you can keep saved away for those moments when you need to start talking dirty in bed.
“I wish…”
When it comes to dirty talk, there are really only three key phrases that you need to remember. The first is “I wish”, and you can follow this up with absolutely anything your heart desires. It is the perfect phrase to start things off and to get your partner in the mood for what is to come.
It might be that you are both out at a party, or you are heading home in a cab after a nice, romantic meal in a restaurant. You look over at them and see how hot they look and want nothing more than to fuck them.
You can say to them “I wish we were home now because I can’t wait to get my hands on you”. This will make their imagination go wild as they start thinking about the hot things that you will do to them, and you can start planning it out in your head. They’ll be wet and ready for you in no time at all!
When you do get home you can drive them wild by saying “I wish you would join me in the shower/the bedroom so I can show you what I want to do to you”. They’ll practically tear their own clothes off to get to you!
“I want…”
Those two little words are some of the best that you can have at your disposal when it comes to dirty talk. They work well in combination with other things, but one of the hottest you can use is “I want you”.
It lets your partner know immediately what you want to do without going into great detail, which makes it perfect for those of you who don’t feel totally comfortable with talking dirty. You can start off with three little words that have a big impact.
If you feel a little braver, you can get very detailed here. Tell you partner “I want to taste you” or “I want to fuck you from behind”. It lets you know exactly what you want and will really turn them on at the same time.
Of course, telling someone what you want is especially great for domination and submission scenarios. You get to take control, and “I want” is a great way to do that. If you’re fucking someone hard and fast and they are trying to hold back their moans, tell them “I want to hear you scream” and see what they do. It’ll be one of the hottest things you’ll hear.
“I love…”
Dirty talk, as you might have guessed, doesn’t just stop when you get into the bedroom and start fucking. If you feel comfortable carrying on, there is another key phrase you can use to turn your partner on a lot.
“I love” is the perfect starting phrase that you can use. It is really versatile and lets your adapt and change it in a huge number of ways. For a start, you can say “I love doing this to you” and describe exactly what you are doing. Knowing that you love doing something so hot and sexy to them will have them moaning and groaning in no time at all.
If they are doing something to you that you find incredibly hot, tell them “I love it when you do that” and again you should describe what they are doing. It lets them know that you enjoy it so they can do it again in the future.
Another thing you can try saying is “I love the look on your face when you’re about to come”. It shows that you really appreciate getting them to orgasm and how hot they look when you get them there.
Don’t be afraid to be demanding with dirty talk
The whole point of talking dirty is to give you the chance to tell your partner exactly what it is that you want, and what you would like to do to get it. So you shouldn’t be afraid of using dirty talk to be a little bit more demanding in bed.
You might be a little cautious about trying to talk dirty for the first time, so start out with something small. The “I wish” phrases are perfect for this, while “I want” and “I love” help to move things along.
We here on the blog and on the Escort Scotland forum love talking dirty, so if you are looking for the best tips, check out what others have to say on the forum, or you could write your own tips in the comment box below.
What is the hottest phrase that you have heard in bed? Share it with us and see what others thing, and you might just read some amazing ones for you to use in the future!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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I love to talk dirty. Nothing turn me on more.