It is an undeniable fact. At some point in your life, you will have watched porn. Not only that, but you will have taken notice of the different things the porn stars did to apply to your own sex life.
Last year, we saw a rise in people searching and watching lesbian porn, and it got me thinking. If we can learn new tips and tricks from other porn videos, why can’t we do the same with lesbian porn?
Here on Escort Scotland, we look at the different things we can learn from watching lesbian porn.
Seduction is important
While this is true in many other cases, lesbian porn places a huge emphasis on the seduction. They don’t just fall into bed together, or suddenly decide that they want to sleep with the person randomly knocking on their door, as we often see in other porn videos.
No, lesbian porn moves away from this. The lesbian porn stars concentrate on really seducing and turning on their partner, and it helps to make it even more realistic to those watching. Not only that, but the seduction is something we can really learn from.
Even if you are in a long term relationship and you feel that the romance is dead – bring it back. Don’t simply jump in the sheets as though you have to have sex as soon as possible or something bad will happen.
Take a moment to think of how you could seduce your partner. Start out with a romantic meal at your favourite restaurant, and then when you get back home tell them how beautiful they are and how sexy they look in their dress.
Then, enjoy some deep and passionate kisses, taking your time to really kiss them. Act or pretend that this is the first time you have gotten this close and it will make it all the more intense!
Foreplay is a big part of it
Watching lesbian porn, you will see that they spend a lot of time on foreplay and oral sex. While some will argue that this is because how they have sex is different to how others have sex (of course), they still spend a good deal of time doing the things that we count as foreplay.
This leads easily on from seducing your partner, so when you feel they are putty in your hands you can start with the real foreplay.
In your head, make a list of your partner’s weak spots. Neck, breasts, stomach, legs, etc. Which are the most sensitive and which will she want you to touch more than any other? Start with the area furthest away from where she really wants you to be and work your way through the list slowly.
Your lips and hands are great tools you can use to gentle stroke, lick, and suck to make your really desperate for you. Soon, she will be almost begging you to take her and that is your cue to move on.
Try lots of techniques and positions
When it comes to sex, we often fall into a routine.
We give the usual hint to our partner that we want sex, we get into the same positions, and then it is over as quickly as it started.
Lesbian porn shows us that it is different. You don’t have to do the same things over and over, and you should feel free to move all over the bed. After all, there is plenty of space!
Don’t be afraid to try new techniques and positions in the bedroom, and listen to your partner. If they seem to be enjoying something, stick at it a little longer before you move around. By the time you are done, you will both be feeling fantastic and exhausted from such a high energy and fun sex session.
Do you feel that watching porn has enhanced your abilities in the bedroom? You can share your best tips and tricks by leaving a comment in the box below or by visiting the Escort Scotland forum.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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