With the Fifty Shades of Grey film not long from its cinema release, items like blindfolds and whips are becoming more and more popular in the bedroom. Using them can be a lot of fun, if you know how.
The first time a partner asked me to put on a blindfold in the bedroom, I was a little sceptical. The idea of leaving myself unable to see what was happening around me was a bit scary, and the thought of fumbling blindly was a bit of a turn off. However, a friend had recently commented that I’m not adventurous enough in the bedroom, so I decided to give it a try.
It isn’t very often that the blindfold comes out again, but when it does it is a lot of fun. So what are the different things you can do with a blindfold?
Blind taste test
Stating the obvious here, but putting on a blindfold means you have to rely on your other senses. This can be a little strange to get used to, but it can also be a huge turn on when you start to focus on what you are hearing, smelling, tasting and feeling.
Blindfolds and food seem to go hand in hand in the bedroom. Often you will see images showing a woman being fed a strawberry blindfolded, and there’s a very good reason why – it is a lot of fun.
Getting together a little spread of different foods to feed to your partner can be fun, especially if they don’t know what is coming. You can also feed them each item using your own lips, giving you both the chance for a quick kiss before moving on to the next item.
If you have some runny substances, such as honey or chocolate sauce, you can put it onto your fingers for your partner to lick and suck off. This will be a huge turn on for you both and turn your food play to an erotic experience.
When the blindfold is on, you have no idea what your partner is going to do. They can start be slowly kissing your neck and stripping you out of your clothes, or they could endlessly tease you until you beg them for more.
The reason that a blindfold is such a big turn on is the fact that you are constantly hoping and anticipating what your partner will do. You are waiting to find out their plans while praying they will bring you closer and closer to orgasm.
However, the blindfold can work both ways. Unless your hands are tied, you can reach for your partner and give them a slow and sensual blowjob while blindfolded. Because you cannot see, you will have to rely on the noises they are making and touch to see if they are enjoying it – which they undoubtedly will.
When was the last time you used a blindfold in the bedroom? Did you enjoy the experience, or are you happy to never repeat it again? You can share your experience in the comment box below, or you can see what others are saying over on the Escort Scotland forum.