Everyone loves porn. We like seeing the sexy movies and watching couples getting it on. If you watch them with your partner you’ll know how much of a turn on it can be to share the experience and see what turns them on the most… but what if you were to take it one step further? What if you were to make your very own sex video?
Making a sex video, or a sex tape, is a popular idea at the moment. It adds a little bit of spice and kink to your sex life, and the experience of creating it together is a huge turn on. Not sure how to make it the best sex video you’ve ever seen? Follow our 5 essentials tricks to use when making a sex video and you can’t go wrong!
1. Failing to plan is planning to fail
Don’t just jump straight into shooting the video. Yes, it might seem like an excellent idea, but the issue with this is that you and your partner will not have had the chance to talk about what you want to do, and so you could have very different ideas. Instead, sit down together and make a plan. Making a plan might sound like the least sexy thing in the world, but you’ll find that it helps a lot.
Figure out what you are actually going to be shooting on. If you choose to use a mobile, because many have great cameras, make sure it isn’t set to automatically back up your information. The last thing you want is someone else discovering your kinky video. We all remember the Fappening, right?
Discuss who is holding the camera, if anyone is. You might decide to go for a wide angle to show everything, but this seems less intimate. That is why a lot of amateur videos are shot in POV. It can be awkward getting used to fucking while holding the camera, but it is much more erotic this way.
Make sure you take the time to groom yourself as well, and really get yourself nice and clean. You’ll feel a lot better on camera when you have taken the time to wash your body properly.
2. Set the scene and get dressed
Setting the scene is an important part of making a sex video. You want to make sure the lights are perfect for what you want, so that every detail can be seen, and that the stage is set for your fun. If you are going to have props, make sure they are to hand. Off screen is best, but having them laid out ready to grab is a great idea. It means that there isn’t going to be much of a break in the action, so you can keep things going.
Your clothing is also an important aspect to think about. You want to wear something that not only makes you feel sexy, but is also easy to remove. The last thing you want is to be struggling with a corset or the buckle of that belt, so go for things that make you look good and can also be taken off quickly.
3. Foreplay and fuck before the cameras roll
Before the camera even starts rolling, you should enjoy a little bit of foreplay. In fact, we think you should fuck each other hard and fast until you come before you get down to business on screen.
Why? It is not only going to help you get rid of all of the stress you are feeling at being on camera and having sex, but you’ll also get to have an orgasm before you get started. This will leave you feeling good, and so when you go for round two, you are more at ease. An added bonus is that, after orgasm number one, the man will find that they last longer!
4. Keep complimenting each other
One of the biggest problems of making your own sex video is that people get so caught up over how they look and the fact that they are not totally at ease in front of the camera. This can ruin the moment and make you both appear tense and uncomfortable with what you are doing… which is definitely not what you want.
Instead, compliment them. Add a little dirty talk to the mix. Tell them exactly what you want and, when they do something good, tell them. Say “fuck yes, that feels amazing” and you will find you stop focusing on the camera and instead look to each other.
5. Don’t just delete: watch it first!
We get so paranoid about people seeing our sex video that we often delete it immediately, but this is then a waste. You’ve gone to all of that effort, and while making the video might be fun, you should at least watch it once for the sake of it.
You don’t have to keep it, but you’ll find that taking the time to sit and watch it together is a great way to extend the fun. You get to see what you both look like on screen and maybe even recreate it.
Making a sex video
Often, the best part about making a sex video isn’t sitting down to watch it back. It is way more fun to make the thing. You get to tease and turn your partner on in front of the camera, and you’ll find that you put on a show to please your partner.
It might only be a video for you and your partner, but you’ll find that everything is enhanced. Each moan is louder, each action a little more obvious, and when you cum, it will be like the world is shaking. So why not try making your own sex video?
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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One good note, think about the future of the relationship.
If it is leaked online, would it bother you and the other person?
I find making videos can be risky.