Bondage

Bondage, sometimes called ligotage, is where you or your partner are restrained by the other, usually for erotic purposes. Anything can be used as a restraint, such as rope, cuffs, or even specially made tape. It can be light bondage, as part of a tie-and-tease play, or it could be more extreme for the purposes of torture. Just how far you are both willing to go with bondage is up to you and your partner, and when practiced in a consensual environment bondage can be a big turn on and fantastic fun to try.

Communication is a key part of any bondage play. First of all, you will need to discuss exactly what type of play you are looking for. While being tied up and torture isn't for everyone, it might be just the thing you are looking for. Talking about what you feel is and isn't acceptable to you will help your partner make sure they don't go beyond your limits. Your conversation will also give you both the chance to agree on a safe word, which you will be able to use if you need the bonds to be made a bit looser, or if you need a drink before you continue.

Selecting what you will be restrained with can be an important part of the session. Some will be happy to be tied and restrained by rope, but others may prefer tape to avoid the chaffing that can be caused by rope. Why not experiment with different restraints to see what works best for you?

With bondage there are many different things you can act out with it. It could be pure torture, where you are tied and left completely at the mercy of your mistress, or it could be simply to train you in obedience, or as punishment as part of a humiliation play. The use of bondage can allow you to act out many of your desires, so let your imagination go wild.