{"id":5746,"date":"2019-04-30T10:00:18","date_gmt":"2019-04-30T09:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.escort-scotland.com\/blog\/?p=5746"},"modified":"2019-04-29T15:21:02","modified_gmt":"2019-04-29T14:21:02","slug":"no-liking-anal-play-wont-make-you-gay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.escort-scotland.com\/blog\/no-liking-anal-play-wont-make-you-gay\/","title":{"rendered":"No, Liking Anal Play Won’t ‘Make You Gay’"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sometimes, you’ll hear somebody say something and just find yourself pausing to look at them for a moment. Did they really just say that? Did I just misunderstand what they were saying?<\/em> When the answer is ‘no’ it tends to make you worry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

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Given\nhow open I am about my job with friends, it shouldn’t be a surprise\nthat I have some strange conversations. However, one in particular\nhappened this last weekend and inspired me to write this blog. No,\nthe sex acts you enjoy in the bedroom do not define your sexuality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s normal\nto like anal play<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

This\nweekend, I met up with some girl friends for cocktails and a catch\nup. As typically happens with this particular group, the conversation\nturned towards sex. One said that her partner was interested in\ntrying pegging but she had absolutely no idea where to start.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\nalready know that pegging is a hugely\npopular sex<\/a> act right now. For a start, the\nprostate is sensitive<\/strong>.\nStimulation of the right kind can lead to an incredible orgasm. When\nyou peg someone, it is also a complete role reversal. Your partner is\nno longer the one in charge, which is a turn on for many of us. It’s\nnormal to like anal play!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But\nbefore anyone could say anything to this friend, however, another\nperson in the group spoke up. She started out by saying “ew”,\nwhich should have been a clear indication as to how the conversation\nwas going to go. You can get a basic summary of what they said below:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her: Why doesn’t he just sleep with a guy if he wants to be fucked up the ass?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

As you can likely imagine, this made most of the group go quiet. After a few questions, this person told us that a man liking anal sex means that he is gay, because “butt stuff” is what gay people do. What makes her point of view so frustrating is that this is a commonly held belief by a lot of the general public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The sex acts\nwe enjoy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

There\nseems to be some confusion between the sex acts we enjoy and our\nsexual preferences, though particularly when it comes to men and anal\nplay of any kind. Anal play can be a lot of fun, but people associate\nthe ass with being gay. Being gay doesn’t mean you have to like anal,\nand liking anal doesn’t meant that you’re gay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No,\nliking anal play isn’t going to make you gay. The sexual interests\nyou have in the bedroom are different to who you find attractive.\nMixing the two\nup is asking for trouble<\/strong>.\nIf you are male and like only men, that would make you gay. If,\nhowever, you like your girlfriend stimulating your prostate with a\nstrap-on, you aren’t gay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To put it simply: it’s your sexual attraction that defines your sexuality, not what you are into. If it was based purely on the kinky acts you enjoy, then my sexuality would be all over the place. I already know that I’m pansexual, but going by this rule, it would change each and every single day, based on who I am with and what I’m doing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The science behind anal play<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The\nproblem is that far too many people have bought into the taboo\nsurrounding anal play. They either see it as “gay” or they\nsee it as “dirty”. The chances of getting shamed for\nwanting to try it are high. Thankfully, people are starting to learn.\nThey can see that it isn’t a threat to their sexuality, because the\nass is incredibly sensitive, as the video below explains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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