{"id":4107,"date":"2017-10-05T10:00:24","date_gmt":"2017-10-05T09:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.escort-scotland.com\/blog\/?p=4107"},"modified":"2017-10-02T17:29:01","modified_gmt":"2017-10-02T16:29:01","slug":"partner-gone-off-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.escort-scotland.com\/blog\/partner-gone-off-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Has My Partner Gone Off Sex and How Can We Fix It?"},"content":{"rendered":"

A lack of sex in a relationship is never a good thing. In the short term it can lead to tension and frustration, whilst in the long term it can bring a relationship crashing down. Unless you are in an asexual relationship and have gravitated to someone of the same ilk as yourself, it is unlikely anyone in a sexless relationship is actually going to be happy, even if one of them can cope or fill the time better than the other. <\/p>\n

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But what are the reasons people don’t want sex in a relationship, and what can you do to solve the situation? Well, your friends from Escort Scotland are here to help.<\/p>\n

There are a number of reasons why people lose sex drive, but I will cut them down to three main issues, and give ideas of how you can fix it. So here we go.<\/p>\n

1) Stress and Mental Health Issues<\/h2>\n

This can be a big one when it comes to reducing sex drive. Life is stressful for many, with falling wages and the pressure of feeding a family, or keeping a roof over their head. If someone’s head is full of bad things, then sex gets pushed out. The less they release from sex, the more stressed they will become, so it is a self fulfilling cycle.<\/p>\n

Mental health issues are another factor. Depression is different to normal stress (even bad stress) but will have the same negative affect as stress and worry.<\/p>\n

To help fix the issues, it is likely that the other partner will have to be in tune with how the affected person is feeling. When someone has stress or mental health issues, they aren’t likely to vocalise it in clear terms. So instead of just feeling sorry for yourself, realise that they may not be feeling top of the world. Tell them how special they are, do things which aren’t sex related but fun. Maybe recommend a trip to the doctor. Let them know you will be with them every step of the way. Sex may well be back on the table if you can help them feel better. Still, it is best to never pressure them if they are in this situation.<\/p>\n