Escort Scotland Blog https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog Welcome to the Escort Scotland blog, the best blog the adult industry has to offer! Mon, 07 Sep 2015 10:00:27 +0000 en-US hourly 1 Mistakes To Avoid In A Threesome https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/mistakes-to-avoid-in-a-threesome/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/mistakes-to-avoid-in-a-threesome/#comments Mon, 07 Sep 2015 10:00:27 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2128 Of all of the hot fantasies and kinky things we want to try out in the bedroom, a threesome always seems to be up there. There is something really hot about having not just one person to fuck in bed, but two. It is a great way to tick off one of the things you will probably have on your sexy bucket list.

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Of all of the hot fantasies and kinky things we want to try out in the bedroom, a threesome always seems to be up there. There is something really hot about having not just one person to fuck in bed, but two. It is a great way to tick off one of the things you will probably have on your sexy bucket list.

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However, when it comes to threesomes there also seems as though there is a lot that could go wrong, and when it does go wrong it can be really tough to recover from it. If you want to prepare yourself for some of the things that can go wrong during a threesome, and you want to know the best ways to make a comeback from it, we might just have the perfect guide for you below.

The attention should be shared

This is something that happens far too often during a threesome, and so we hear about it a lot. Some people, unfortunately, just use a threesome as a way to fuck someone else while their partner is there, and if that is what you want to do you should really rethink it. Threesomes are a way for you to fuck two people at the same time, not for you to basically cheat on your partner while they watch.

The attention should be shared when it comes to a threesome, but unfortunately we can sometimes get a little carried away. We might be enjoying the position we are fucking them in, or it might just be the change of scenery is great for us, but we can accidentally give more attention to one person than another during a threesome.

Should you realise that you have been doing this, the best thing to do is to try and make sure the other person is at least involved in some way. While you are fucking one girl, get the other to sit on your face so you can eat her out. That way, they are still involved and you still get pleasure.

Establishing rules

What is and isn’t acceptable during a threesome really depends on those involved, and so before you go jumping into bed and stripping everything off, you should all sit down and talk about what does and doesn’t work for you. If you can’t sit down and have an open and honest conversation about threesomes, you shouldn’t be having one in the first place.

Check the basics first. Is kissing allowed? Kissing with tongue? Who is going to finish you off? Is there anything that is completely out of bounds?

This conversation, before anything happens, is important because then you all know where you stand. No-one will be left in the bedroom feeling uncertain about where they stand, and you will all know what is and isn’t acceptable. Should someone cross the line, take the time to talk about it and clear the air.

Don’t rush it

Threesomes in porn are very different to how threesomes go in real life. In porn it is fast and a real fuckfest, where everyone is screaming in orgasm after only a few minutes. It is over in around ten minutes with everyone completely satisfied and not a frown in sight.

Of course, that isn’t how threesomes work in real life, and if you go into it expecting it to be over in that amount of time, you won’t have had a good one. Don’t rush it, or you’ll find you have wasted an even of what could have been passionate fucking simply going for what you want.

Take the time to fuck each person involved in the way they want, and keep things slow so that you can learn what works for them. It could be that a slow and long lick of their clit as them squirming against your face, but a fast thrust of your finger turns them off. Taking the time to learn what everyone likes will make it even more intense and exciting, which is turn will make the entire evening unforgettable.

Don’t take on too much

With threesomes, you might feel as though you are expected to lie back and immediately have a pussy on your cock and on your face, or you might think that you have to finger fuck and lick out both women at once while they combine their hands and stroke your penis as fast and hard as possible.

That isn’t the case. One of the biggest problems that people find in threesomes is that they try to take on too much or too many things all at once. This ties in to rushing it, and you really don’t have to rush it. Simply take the time to enjoy things, and do it in a way that feels natural.

Start with kissing and slowly work your way up to moving down their body. As you do, keep swapping to make sure everyone is included. It will make things more exciting for everyone involved.

Let the numbers take control

You need to also learn to recognise just who is in control when it comes to a threesome. Plenty of men automatically assume that it is them, but they need to be paying attention to the numbers instead of what their cock wants to believe.

For example, if you are in a FFM threesome, it is the women in control. It is all about them instead of you, and they will lead the threesome wherever they want it to go. However, if you are in a MMF threesome, the men tend to be the ones in charge, which can dramatically change things.

Have you got a great tip for those enjoying a threesome, or have you made a mistake in a threesome we haven’t covered? You can tell us your hot threesome stories in the comment box below, or you can see what others say by visiting the Escort Scotland forum.

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Guy Sends Cock Pic To HR Boss! https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/guy-sends-cock-pick-to-hr-boss/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/guy-sends-cock-pick-to-hr-boss/#comments Fri, 04 Sep 2015 09:00:39 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2122 We all know how popular sending naked pictures of yourself has become over recent years. Where once upon a time you had to seduce a partner, now it seems, if you are a guy, all you need to do is send a picture of your penis to a partner and that does a trick. I'm not going to judge, society moves on, even if it does seem little strange to me. However, for one guy, this week it went seriously wrong.

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We all know how popular sending naked pictures of yourself has become over recent years. Where once upon a time you had to seduce a partner, now it seems, if you are a guy, all you need to do is send a picture of your penis to a partner and that does a trick. I’m not going to judge, society moves on, even if it does seem little strange to me. However, for one guy, this week it went seriously wrong.

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The rather unfortunate fellow, upon hearing that he had landed a job, decided to celebrate by sending a picture of his cock to who I can only anticipate was his girlfriend. However, after getting the number wrong, he sent it to the company’s head of HR!

After receiving the image, the female manager assumed it was a mistake and ignored him. Obviously wondering why he was getting nothing back, ‘Mr Loverman’ then went and sent another picture.

After once again getting no reply, he rang up the number, and only then found out that he ‘cocked up’.

It was at this point that she called the police. However, she declined to press charged when she realised that it was an honest mistake.

Unsurprisingly, the job offer was withdrawn.

Well, that seems like a tough break for the lad. Then again, if he has a basic lack of understanding of how to use a phone, then I probably wouldn’t want him to be part of my organisation!

One suspects that will be the last time he makes that mistake!

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What’s Wrong With Watching Porn? https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/whats-wrong-with-watching-porn/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/whats-wrong-with-watching-porn/#comments Wed, 02 Sep 2015 14:24:31 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2116 The entire world seems to be pretty divided when it comes to porn. There are some, like us here at Escort Scotland, who think that watching porn is a great way to relieve stress and find new and interesting things to try in the bedroom. However, there are some out there who think that watching porn is the lowest of the lows, and that is can be very damaging to you and your relationships.

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The entire world seems to be pretty divided when it comes to porn. There are some, like us here at Escort Scotland, who think that watching porn is a great way to relieve stress and find new and interesting things to try in the bedroom. However, there are some out there who think that watching porn is the lowest of the lows, and that is can be very damaging to you and your relationships.

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It seems that barely a month goes by before porn is attacked. Throughout the years it has been accused of all sorts of things, and those who watch it have been painted as scum. It shouldn’t be surprising that there has been yet another “study” into the impact that porn has on us, and yet again it looks at it unfavourably. So what exactly is wrong with watching porn?

Beliefs about porn

If you were to ask the general public about their views on porn, you would find plenty of them insisting that they don’t watch it and that they find it disgusting. Probe them further and they would tell you that it corrupts young minds and gives them twisted views on sex and women. In fact, plenty would say that porn is degrading to women.

Porn is a fantasy, which many people realise when they watch it. Men know that kissing a woman’s neck isn’t going to make her instantly orgasm, and we women really do wish it was that simple. If it was it wouldn’t mean experimenting in the bedroom to find the perfect position to make us screaming in delight, or the times when sex just didn’t go the way we were hoping it would.

As for corrupting people, porn only does that if people don’t understand that it is fake, and for the most part people realise that it is all staged. We don’t walk around with this constant belief that every police officer, doctor, and repairman wants to have sex with us. We don’t think that men can last for hours and hours and hours in bed while we women orgasm so many times that the room starts to spin.

Then there is the fact that porn is thought of as degrading to women. Plenty of porn stars have spoken out about their roles saying that they feel completely in control of what happens on set. It is their body, after all.

The latest verdict

Of course, the latest verdict on porn ignores all of these facts. Instead, it focuses on the slippery slope that watching porn can lead to, where something as simple as watching porn can lead you to become an abusive asshole. We know that isn’t how it works, but not everyone does.

This view was shared by Dr Manish Jain of the BLK Super Specialty Hospital in New Delhi, and he said that “obsessive porn viewing can turn some into hyper-sexuals and addicts.” The key word here, of course, is “can”. Not “will”, and yet watching porn is still seen as bad.

He goes on to say that watching porn “may later lead to porn dependence or even promiscuity, leading to relationship break-ups” and that “it can make the act feel too mechanical”, which in turn “can also cause stress in a relationship along with various other problems in one’s romantic and personal life”. So porn is being blamed for everything, despite the fact that there are plenty in relationships who still watch it.

Dr Parikh is another doctor who seems to dislike porn, and he states that “there is nothing to say that pornography is healthy”.

Porn is actually good for you

Well, Dr Parikh, it seems you haven’t done very much research into porn, have you? Especially considering the research paper released recently that tells us that porn isn’t actually as bad as everyone is making it out to be. Yes, that does mean that watching porn isn’t going to turn you into some kind of pervert who can only get off if he had twenty porn videos playing in front of him at once.

Two Danish researchers decided to conduct a study where they looked at Danish adults and what watching porn did for and to them. There were a total of 688 people involved, making it the biggest study into porn that we’ve seen recently.

Their survey has some surprising results, with them discovering “that porn did not yield any negative mental or health effects”. Yes!

Not only that, but they actually discovered that there was a positive correlation between the amount of porn a subject watched and their sexual satisfaction, as they seemed to be more satisfaction in bed if they watched more porn.

So what is wrong with watching porn?

Given this latest study to show that watching porn isn’t the evil thing that many believe it is, we can’t help but think that people are just being a little bit stuck up when it comes to porn. After all, the evidence says that watching porn is perfectly normal.

I’d say that people hate porn because we are still in a society where sex is dirty. You can do it, as long as it is behind closed doors and you take a shower afterwards without every talking about it again… and you certainly aren’t allowed to enjoy it.

Because sex is still thought of as dirty, getting enjoyment from watching staged videos of others having sex is even worse… in fact, it is almost as bad as paying for sex! There’s only one way to stop people thinking like that, and that is for more studies to come out saying that porn is good for you… and we eagerly await them.

Is porn as dirty as it seems, or does it have an unfair reputation? Join the discussion on the Escort Scotland forum or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Man Threatens Prostitute with Arrest to Get Sex https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/man-threatens-prostitute-with-arrest-to-get-sex/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/man-threatens-prostitute-with-arrest-to-get-sex/#comments Mon, 31 Aug 2015 13:06:16 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2112 Over the last month there has been a huge debate over whether the sex industry should be decriminalised or not. We have always campaigned for that, and we have been joined by Amnesty International. The human rights group agree that the safety of the men and women who work in the industry should take priority over any moralising.

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Over the last month there has been a huge debate over whether the sex industry should be decriminalised or not. We have always campaigned for that, and we have been joined by Amnesty International. The human rights group agree that the safety of the men and women who work in the industry should take priority over any moralising.

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The problems with the current system were highlighted this week with a story coming from the United States. Authorities say that a South Florida man pretended to be a police officer, and threatened to arrest a prostitute unless she had unprotected sex with him.

22 year old Mark William Rose was arrested on charges of impersonating a police officer in the commission of a felony and false imprisonment.

According to reports he has previously used the fake officer bluff about a dozen times, with three women accepting.

Rose’s lawyer says he refutes the false imprisonment charge, and that he wasn’t the first guy to lie to a woman to get sex.

A Brighter Tomorrow

To be fair, this is what happens when you put the industry on the fringes of society. There are men who want to take advantage of sex workers as they know they are in a legally precarious position. If the women fall for scams like this, they will feel they are faced with the unpalatable choice of either getting arrested or having unsafe sex, risking unwanted pregnancies, STI’s and AIDS. How can we allow this to carry on?

Now if this was all legal, the woman would be able to tell the guy to sling his hook. Actually, he wouldn’t even try it as he would have nothing to gain. This is the benefit of decriminalisation. The world becomes a much safer place for sex workers, stopping them being exploited.

Now there will always be those who don’t really care about sex worker safety. They will continue to believe that being victimised is an occupational hazard. They will even be those who believe that violent attacks should work as a warning to go and get a job in the local pub instead.

However, Escort Scotland will continue to fight the rights of sex workers all over the world. I long for a day that we no longer to hear stories like this.

That really would mean we have a more progressive society.

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Bursting The Biggest Porn Watching Myths! https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/bursting-the-biggest-porn-watching-myths/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/bursting-the-biggest-porn-watching-myths/#comments Fri, 28 Aug 2015 10:00:46 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2107 Porn has a pretty poor reputation, and to be honest we can kind of understand why. In the deepest and darkest corners of the internet there are some pretty disturbing porn videos to watch, and these videos make others believe that all porn is like that.

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Porn has a pretty poor reputation, and to be honest we can kind of understand why. In the deepest and darkest corners of the internet there are some pretty disturbing porn videos to watch, and these videos make others believe that all porn is like that.

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There is also the belief that watching porn makes you into some kind of pervert who only thinks about sex. In fact, they think you can’t have a normal conversation with a member of the opposite sex without wanting to stick your penis into their open mouth.

Porn is seen as dirty, and because of that there are plenty of myths circling about it. Those watching it are thought of as unhappy and disgusting men (because we all know that women don’t watch porn, right?), and these men are also pretty shit in bed, which is why they are watching porn in the first place.

Obviously that isn’t the case, but it doesn’t stop the rumours from flying around. Well, here on Escort Scotland we take a look at the biggest watching porn myths and we well and truly bust them.

Unhappy and disgusting creatures

The first ridiculous belief is that those who watch porn are unhappy and disgusting creatures. They are unhappy because porn is ruining not only their sex lives, but also with their lives in general, and so they will use porn as a way to escape the mundanity of their lives.

Well, Dr Rohann Bokdawala stepped forward to say that, actually, “a lot of couples have a boring and nearly non-existent sex life. For such couples, porn can act as a substitute for a while. The cause for the unhappiness is mostly something other than porn.” So basically porn doesn’t cause a bad sex live, but it can be an escape from it.

They are also thought of as disgusting, as porn is such a dirty thing. No-one can really willingly want to take part in porn, and those watching it are doing it purely to see the displeasure and unhappiness in the faces of the porn stars.

The belief that those watching porn are disgusting human beings comes from the idea that porn is a dirty and immoral thing. However, as Dr Shaival Chandalia points out, “there is nothing immoral about watching porn”, and in fact it is a perfectly healthy and normal thing to do.

Porn is just for men

Where exactly this idea came from we aren’t sure, but there seem to be a lot of people out there who believe that only men watch porn, as women wouldn’t do something so immoral and disgusting. These people are probably the same ones who think that women don’t swear or shit or do anything wrong at all.

Basically, porn is not just for men. A large number of women watch porn, as they get just as much enjoyment from what is happening on the screen as men. The only difference is that women tend not to brag about it in the same way that men do. Dr Bokdawala explains that “the hypocrisy of our society” is to blame for this perception, as women cannot be as vocal about their porn habits.

Experts have also analysed the way that our brain reacts to porn, and have noticed something that shocked plenty of people around the world. It seems that porn is actually a gender neutral activity, as there is no difference between the way that a man or a woman sees it.

Porn can lead to a poor performance

The porn stars we see on the screen are athletes in their own ways. They can last for hours and hours, moaning the entire time without even a hint of losing their hard on. For many out there this can be off putting, as they feel that they simply don’t measure up to the porn star and their massive monster cock. This, somehow, translates to a belief that watching porn can lead to an underperformance in bed. It could be that people think that they will never be good enough and don’t try, or it could simply be that you spend all of your energy on whacking off to porn and so when you have a real woman in front of you, you simply cannot get it up.

Dr Bokdawala points out how ridiculous this belief is. “Porn in no way leads you to underperform,” he explains, highlighting that most people are aware “that the porn film is after all fiction”, and viewers are very much aware of this. Because we who watch porn know it is all fake, we don’t expect to last as long or do the same things the stars can, so no underperformance there!

Although this is in no way true, it doesn’t stop people believing that, somehow, porn is going to ruin your sex life. Watching videos of men and women writhing around together in bed is going to make you desire the people you watch on screen and not your partner, and you will immediately try some of the hard core things you have watched without bothering to talk to your partner about it. Of course, Neeta V Shetty, a psychotherapist and life coach, tells us that porn “helps break the monotony” in a relationship and can “[add] some zing”. She goes on to explain that it is actually “a safe way to satisfy your sexual urges”, especially if you want to try something that your partner isn’t ready for.

Basically, porn isn’t as bad as it is made out to be. Okay, so there might be some videos out there that you don’t like or agree with, but that doesn’t make those who watch them monsters. Does porn really deserve the reputation it has, or do others need to open up to porn? You can let us know what you think about this topic either by heading to the Escort Scotland forum and sharing your thoughts there or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Women Have Topless March in New York! https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/women-have-topless-march-in-new-york/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/women-have-topless-march-in-new-york/#comments Wed, 26 Aug 2015 10:00:13 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2102 Woman's breasts have been bared all over the world, including in New York's iconic Times Square as part of 'World Nipple Day'. This is all part of a supposed drive for equality and feminism.

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Woman’s breasts have been bared all over the world, including in New York’s iconic Times Square as part of ‘World Nipple Day’. This is all part of a supposed drive for equality and feminism.

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NEW YORK CITY – MAY 11: Times Square with tourists on May 11, 2013. Iconified as “The Crossroads of the World” it’s the brightly illuminated hub of the Broadway Theater District.

Thousands of women took to the street to bare their breasts, amid claims that this is nothing but a way to scam tourists. This was echoed by Mayor Bill de Basio and Police Commissioner Bill Bratton who stated that the painted ladies who have photos taken with tourists are nothing but a nuisance.

Pain in the Ass

The Mayor even suggested closing off the pedestrian plaza at the ‘Crossroads of the World’ to stop the topless women and costume characters from harassing non-tipping tourists (I have been to New York, and yes, it is bloody annoying)

However, New York’s GoTopless spokeswoman Rachel Jessee said this was all about equality when baring ones chest. Other marchers has varying reasons for want to get their knockers out.

“We are doing it because it’s liberating, it’s free, it’s something different. Why not?” said Claudia Simondi, 46, a native of Argentina working as a bartender in the US.

Spencer Jones, 27, a Manhattan artist who has been sketching nude models since she was 12, and later became a model herself, said being topless “never really bothered me”.

Theresa Crudo, 22, even brought along her 15-month-old son.

She came bare-chested – and said that her husband was completely comfortable with her decision.

“Boobs are natural, you know?” she said. “I wanted to show that you can breastfeed in public and do what you have to do for your child.”

However, others really aren’t convinced. Sandy Belzer, 61, was one of those people.

“This is just a disgrace, what this city has come to,” he said. “What’s equality for breasts?”

Two Dutch tourists really didn’t understand what on earth they were doing it for.

“I don’t know why they’re making such a big deal out of it,” said Paul Martin, 37, of Amsterdam. “There are more important things to worry about than nipples.”

His friend, Leonie van der Maden, agreed: “It’s ridiculous, really! I’m perfectly OK with it. But why do you need to march, if it’s already legal?”

This in itself is a very good point. Walking around topless has been legal in New York since 1992. What do they actually want? What are they trying to achieve?

A Con or Stupid – Pick One

For me, this is a case of trying to get money of unsuspecting tourists. I have been to New York, and if I had spent any more time around Times Square with people trying to get money out of me, I would have been getting the train back to Boston rather quickly, shortly after knocking someone dressed as Captain America spark out.

There will of course be those feminists who are there for some sort of ‘issue’. They are that type of feminist who will find offence in everything and who will continually find reasons to go on a march. I would argue that some of these people probably need to get a life, but that of course is a personal opinion and is in no way a reflection of those of the company…….

Let’s just pretend for a second this is a real march for a real reason. I’m sure the cause of feminism would be furthered more by them doing a campaign for equal pay, or equal opportunities in senior positions of organisations? Novel thinking I know.

So what do you think? Am I being too harsh? Should I be embracing the nipple…I mean embracing the freeing of the nipple, no need for feminists to hit me on the head with any placards! Let me know in the comments section below or over in the Escort Scotland forum!

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Gay Users Fear Death in Ashley Madison Leak https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/gay-users-fear-death-in-ashley-madison-leak/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/gay-users-fear-death-in-ashley-madison-leak/#comments Mon, 24 Aug 2015 10:00:06 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2098 When all the hacked Ashley Madison information was leaked last week, it didn't take a rocket scientist to work out that it was going to cause problems in many households all over the world. As was expected, divorce proceeding are now taking place in every country where this website has a presence. It is of course extremely sad for those involved. I'm not going to get involved in the 'it's their own fault' mantra that is going round. Everyone has the right to privacy.

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When all the hacked Ashley Madison information was leaked last week, it didn’t take a rocket scientist to work out that it was going to cause problems in many households all over the world. As was expected, divorce proceeding are now taking place in every country where this website has a presence. It is of course extremely sad for those involved. I’m not going to get involved in the ‘it’s their own fault’ mantra that is going round. Everyone has the right to privacy.

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There has however been a much more unforeseen consequence, with gay users in countries with strict anti-homosexuality laws who use the site to have sex and not get busted by the authorities in the process now fearing for their lives.

A Safer Options

For those who don’t know, Ashley Madison was a lot safer for gay users to use in certain countries, in comparison to Grindr. In Egypt, Grindr was used by the police to catch out unsuspecting users.

Gay relationships are illegal in 75 countries, including many in the Middle East, Africa, Southeast Asia and all of the Caribbean. Equal rights groups say the leaking of this information is putting peoples lives at risk.

This was highlighted in July at the time of the original hack, where a Saudi blogger wrote on Reddit the following message.

“I was single, but used it because I am gay; gay sex is punishable by death in my home country so I wanted to keep my hook-ups extremely discreet,”

Though his story hasn’t been confirmed, there is a lot of evidence that he has fled the country and is speaking to immigration lawyers in the US who specialise in LGBT people trying to get asylum.

Users of Ashley Madison’s “Down Low” site, which caters for “married men seeking other men for casual, no-strings fun”, are among the people who have had their details made public. “Down Low” is a term used in America where someone identifies as straight, but is also willing to have sex with other men.

It seems that more than 50 accounts are from Qatar, where gay relationships are punishable by being banged up for five years. 1,500 have been found in Turkey, where although homosexuality isn’t illegal, you can get booted out of or banned from the military.

Things details have gone even more public over the last few days. Originally they were only posted on the dark web. However, there are now online sharing platforms dedicated to exposing peoples infidelity.

There have been quite a few high profile people who have had their infidelity exposed. Civil servants, bankers, UN staff, BBC and ITV workers, plus academics from Oxford and Cambridge Universities have fallen foul of the hack.

What those doing this, or riding the back of it need to remember though, is the fact that it isn’t just cheaters who are getting busted here. How good will they feel if some Saudi gets his head lopped off in the central square just because they wanted to have a laugh at someone’s expense?

Legal Troubles Ahead

It does seem that Ashley Madison are in a lot of trouble over the hack.

Avid Life Media (ALM), the Canadian-based owner of Ashley Madison, had promised its customers that it could provide a secure website and “100 per cent discreet service” and that their servers were “kind of untouchable”.

Erm, No

Sarah Webb, partner at London-based Payne Hicks Beach’s privacy and media law team, said: “Ashley Madison and, more particularly, ALM could be facing litigation of a similar scale and basis to the phone-hacking claims against the publishers of the Mirror and News of the World.”

This will all depend on whether Ashley Madison’s data protection procedures were seen as effective. One big worry for the company is that they charged people who were leaving the site if they wanted their information deleted. Therefore people who may not have wanted their information stored have been the victims of this hack also.

As ever, one suspects it is the lawyers who will benefit from this disaster. The people who have had their relationships ruined, and those gay users who are now scared for their lives will be the ones to suffer.

I just hope I don’t have to write an even more depressing piece in the coming weeks or months.

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Ashley Madison Customer Details Leaked https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/ashley-madison-customer-details-leaked/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/ashley-madison-customer-details-leaked/#comments Thu, 20 Aug 2015 10:00:38 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2093 Well we probably realised it was going to happen at some point or another. On Tuesday, all the customer information from the date theft of cheating site Ashley Madison was dumped on the dark web.

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Well we probably realised it was going to happen at some point or another. On Tuesday, all the customer information from the date theft of cheating site Ashley Madison was dumped on the dark web.

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The 9.7 gigabytes of data was posted using an onion web address which is only accessible using a Tor browser. These files contain the account log ins and details for some 32 million users of the most popular site for those looking to have an extra marital affair. There is also seven years of credit card and other payment transaction details (amounts, not numbers thankfully)

A Lot of Info

This once secret information includes full names, addresses and email addressees.

This is all pretty bad news for the site users. The site actually claims to have 40 million users, all looking for a bit of extra curricular action.

“Ashley Madison is the most famous name in infidelity and married dating,” the site asserts on its homepage. “Have an affair today on Ashley Madison. Thousands of cheating wives and cheating husbands signup everyday looking for an affair…. With our affair guarantee package we guarantee you will find the perfect affair partner.”

Now what isn’t known is whether all this information is genuine or not. However, I am going to guess a lot of it is, mainly due to the fact that very few thought there was a chance this was going to become public knowledge.

The data also includes descriptions of what members were looking for.

“I’m looking for someone who isn’t happy at home or just bored and looking for some excitement,” wrote one member who provided an address in Ottawa and the name and phone number of someone who works for a government agency in Canada.

It seems that the data protection that Ashley Madison provided was actually pretty good, but there is always going to be some smart arse who can hack anything. This seems to be what happened. How it was actually done (which gateway) is available online but as the whole thing confuses me and sends my head into a spin, I will let you go find it yourself. If you understand it more than me, well done.

A Far Better Option

I have to say, I have real sympathy for anyone who has been caught out like this. You won’t need to be some master criminal like Moriarty to work out that some people here really won’t fancy being blackmailed. I don’t know if it is possible, but you would hope the person who did this is tracked down and banged up for a long, long time.

Still, this is a reason why escort websites are so much better than anything like Ashley Madison. If you want to have a bit of extra-marital fun then all you need to do is look at the profiles on our pages. After that it is a case of making that all important phone call and arranging the meeting. We don’t A) need your personal details and B) we don’t want them. This means your wife will never need to know what you have been up to.

Seems a no-brainer to me.

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Viagra Is Now Not Just For Men! https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/viagra-is-now-not-just-for-men/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/viagra-is-now-not-just-for-men/#comments Wed, 19 Aug 2015 10:00:41 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2089 When you hear about Viagra you think about the little blue pill that can do wonders to a man's sex life when used properly. Well, now there is a new "female Viagra" that could do the same for women, and this week it seems that the Food and Drug Administration will be deciding what to do with this miracle drug.

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When you hear about Viagra you think about the little blue pill that can do wonders to a man’s sex life when used properly. Well, now there is a new “female Viagra” that could do the same for women, and this week it seems that the Food and Drug Administration will be deciding what to do with this miracle drug.

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However, there are some concerns that this drug isn’t quite the miracle that people think it is. So what do you need to know about this “female Viagra”? What will it really do, and can it fix the female libido as Viagra does for men?

About the little pink pill

The “female Viagra” is better known as the little pink pill, or Flibanserin, and while it might soon be available from your doctor, there are still a huge divide between different health professionals about whether it is really the miracle drug it has been dubbed, and if it should actually receive FDA approval.

It has been created to try and treat hypoactive sexual desire order in premenopausal women, in the hope that they can cure or at least help the “persistent or recurrent lack of interest in sex that causes (women) personal distress”. It is apparently a huge issue, with the company behind this new drug stating that this condition impacts a huge one in ten women.

However, Flibanserin works a little differently to Viagra. With Viagra a man will typically take it before having sex, so that it can enhance his hard on and make sex even better for him, all by increasing the blood flow to the genitals. Flibanserin works instead by altering the brain chemicals, and has to be taken daily before bedtime to work properly.

An advisor to Sprout, the company behind the drug, and the clinical psychologist, said that “flibanserin is designed to treat an imbalance in neurotransmitters that are directly related to sexual desire”. It increases the levels of dopamine and norepinephrine released while decreasing the levels of serotonin.

Of course, this little pink pill can have some side effects. There are reports that can cause drowsiness, low blood pressure, nausea, dizziness, and even fainting. There, say critics, are “too significant to overlook”, and considering the FDA has actually rejected flibanserin twice previously it looks like the drug might not be approved for use!

Is it worth it?

Yes, that might be a lot of technical talk and science-specific stuff to take in, but it’s important to know it. After all, with Viagra there are still plenty of people out there who think that taking it will cure all of their problems in bed, and it can actually make things worse.

This drug is getting a huge amount of praise from some, but there are still plenty who believe that we need to think carefully about the side effects that just aren’t worth it, especially when there are other ways to treat the low libido.

The director of the Center for Marital and Sexual Health of South Florida has pointed out to what extent women will need to change their lives when taking the drug, stating that “women will have to limit and think about their drinking if they take this drug.”

You might think that doing a study to test the drug’s effects when combined with alcohol could solve this problem, but it has actually made things a lot worse because it has been done. The problem is that it was a small scale study, with 25 people, but the worst part is that only two of those were women. Yes, the majority of those in the alcohol and drug study, to see if alcohol would change how the drug works for women, were actually men. As the executive director of the National Women’s Health Network said, “the FDA should not approve a drug for women with an alcohol interaction study one with men.”

That might not seem so bad, because they can always go on to try on others, right? Well, she then explains how effective (or ineffective) the study has been. She said that “in clinical trials testing its effectiveness, flibanserin has either failed or barely passed. Only about 10-12% of women in trials benefitted from taking the drug.”

So what is the alternative?

Give all of the information we have available on flibanserin, it seems like it will not get approval from the FDA. After all, it doesn’t seem to have the evidence to back up the claims of it being a wonder drug, and that’s a pretty good reason to not put it on the market. So what are the alternatives for those suffering with low libido?

Sometimes, you need to just take it back to basics. If you are struggling to find the urge for sex in the bedroom, whether you’re a man or a woman, the best thing to do is go all out on a date. You could try inviting one of the stunning escorts in Edinburgh to join you for a romantic dinner date at a fancy restaurant. You can talk and get to know them a little better, and as you talk you might feel that spark of attraction coming back to you.

Another way to do it is to try a slow and sensual massage. Get your partner to strip off for you and lie down on the bed for you. Put some massage oil between your hands and slowly rub them up and down their body, working gently all over to drive them made. As the begin to squirm under your touch you might feel your body responding.

Of course, if that doesn’t work you might need to speak to someone about it. There may be some other interesting things that you could try to get your heart racing and your blood pumping, and they might not even cost a penny!

Have you some suggestions for fixing a low libido, or do you think that medication like the little pink or blue pill is the only way to do it? Let us know in the comments below, or head to the Escort Scotland forum to join in the discussion. Should the “female Viagra” pill be approved, or is it simply not ready for the bedroom just yet?

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The Raunchiest Sex Play Ever! https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/the-raunchiest-sex-play-ever/ https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/the-raunchiest-sex-play-ever/#comments Mon, 17 Aug 2015 11:54:52 +0000 https://www.escort-scotland.com/blog/?p=2086 Last week saw what we hope ends up being a pivotal moment in the fight for equality for sex workers. For those who don't know, Amnesty International decided to push for the decriminalisation of sex work. If this does happen, then the safety of men and women will be improved greatly. It really is a progressive step.

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Last week saw what we hope ends up being a pivotal moment in the fight for equality for sex workers. For those who don’t know, Amnesty International decided to push for the decriminalisation of sex work. If this does happen, then the safety of men and women will be improved greatly. It really is a progressive step.

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It is all part of the greater debate in society in regards to what we do about prostitution. Do we go with the Nordic model which criminalises the purchase of sex, and in doing to restrict demand? Or do we decriminalise, and make it safer with regulations? Everyone knows where we stand, but it is wonderful that AA are now on board.

A Raunchy Play

Up in Scotland, this debate really has hit the headlines this week with a play which explores the lives of sex workers and the real lives of the people who work in the industry.

It is all the brainchild of performers Jenny Kondol and Sarah Xanthe. An audience of 15 is led to a secret location through the streets of Edinburgh to watch real-life drama Hula House in the living room of a home set up as a brothel.

The performers play games with the audience, offering them chance to challenge their own pre-conceived ideas about the people who work in the industry.

Jenny told Mirror Online: “A feature on the show has incurred the wrath of quite a few members of the public online, making personal jabs and assumptions that don’t relate to the actual content of the piece.

“It’s tough to read, but we welcome the discussion and hope people are driven to explore the topic further for themselves.”

This has all been done in conjunction with the English Collective of Prostitutes who are also pushing for decriminalisation. Jenny and Sarah are trying to show that current law make women have to work in isolation and danger.

Jenny added: “For many theatre makers and actors, The Ed Fringe is an established platform aimed at reaching as many people as possible, which supports our ethos of trying to get tough issues into the public domain.

“We’ve had lots of positive feedback from audience members so far.”

And Jenny says that sex workers are full of praise too.

She said: “They have been massively encouraging and supportive.

“We wanted to make sure from the start that we were staying true to the genuine experiences shared with us by those offering insights, inviting feedback from active sex workers regularly in development and at the show’s work in progress.

“With Hula House we try to highlight the fact that sex workers come from a variety of backgrounds, geographical and socio-economic, and participate in the industry for far more traditional motives, like financial stability, than most people would care to imagine.

“There is a lot out there about the trafficking, abuse and subjugation of women, all cast under a ‘seedy’ and ‘troubling’ light that does little to champion worker’s rights, however, we hardly ever get to hear about regular women that become sex workers because of a personal choice, of which there are many.

“This is not a show about trafficking.”

“Hula House presents an honest, funny, thought provoking alternate viewpoint, designed to clarify some aspects of the campaign for decriminalisation but at the same time, allow audience members a safe environment to thrash through their own preconceived notions about what it means to be a sex worker.”

A Backlash

As has to be said though, the play has come in for a bit of critisism online. One critic has called it ‘misguided’, whilst others say that the play should be looking at the causes of prostitution, and not calling it a viable career choice.

For that, read that they should be pushing the agenda that the only reason people become sex workers is because they have drug issues, have been abused, or are trafficked.

Everyone here at Escort Scotland would like to applaud the actresses and anyone else associated with the piece. It is only when people have their pre-conceived ideas challenged that headway can be made in the debate.

What is most important is that people are safe. For that to happen, decriminalisation is the only real option.

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